When a Widow’s Right to Support Ends
A widow receives support from the property inherited by her husband’s heirs throughout her widowhood, until she collects her .
The support comes from the estate her husband left. It is a continuing entitlement distinct from the lump-sum payment. Ordinarily, the choice belongs to her: she may continue receiving support rather than collect the . The heirs cannot force her to accept that payment simply to end their obligation to support her.
Once she demands her in court, she is no longer entitled to support.
The explains that if the heirs refuse to pay or cannot pay, she retains her right to support. Thus, her demand does not leave her without either payment or support in those circumstances.
Similarly, if she sold her entire claim,
or pledged her claim as security,
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or designated her as an for another person, meaning that she tells him, “From this you shall collect your debt”—
Here, the widow owes someone money and designates her right to the payment as the source for repaying that debt.
whether she took these steps before a court of expert judges or outside such a court,
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whether she did so during her husband’s lifetime or after his death—
she is not entitled to support from the heirs.
For this purpose, disposing of the entire claim in these ways is treated like collecting it. The result does not depend on whether an expert court supervised the transaction or whether she was already widowed when she made it.
But if she sold only part of it, she remains entitled to support.
Part of her claim remains hers, so a partial sale does not itself end her support. The heirs’ ability to pay off that remaining portion is discussed below.
Once the widow becomes to another man, she loses her entitlement to support.
This refers to , the legally binding first stage of marriage. She need not have entered the completed marriage, and she need not have collected her first husband’s : the new itself ends her support from his estate.
The ’s wording refers to formal . The , citing the , extends the loss of support to engagement before . This is an additional qualification, rather than the meaning of the Hebrew word here.
A widow’s support generally ends when she collects or formally demands her , disposes of the entire claim, or becomes to another man, subject to the qualifications explained above. Selling only part does not itself end her support.
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When a Widow’s Right to Support Ends
explains that continuing to live as her husband’s widow expresses honor for him, and the Sages therefore provided for her support from his estate. Demanding the payment indicates a move toward remarriage and ends that continuing arrangement.
identifies an important qualification to the rule about a partial sale. Although the widow still receives support, the heirs may pay her the remaining balance and thereby end that support. Otherwise, she could realize almost the entire claim, leave a token amount outstanding, and continue drawing support indefinitely. The records this qualification.
Sources: Rashi, 35a; Rabbenu Asher, cited in , 93:10.