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Consent, capacity, and receiving

Consent, , personal status, and the effective receipt of .

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הלכה א

Consent and Consecrating Multiple Women

A woman can become only with her consent.

is the legally binding first stage of Jewish marriage; completes the marriage. “” here means that this binding status has been established. The woman’s consent is essential: without it, no marriage bond is created.

If a man consecrates a woman against her will, she is not . A man, however, who was coerced until he a woman against his will—the woman is .

The woman’s consent is required for her to take effect. By contrast, when the man was coerced into performing the , the rules that the nevertheless take effect.

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A man may several women at the same time. If he consecrates them with money, there must be at least one for each individual woman.

Each woman must receive the minimum monetary value necessary for . One cannot serve as the required monetary consideration for several women together.

One of the women, or another person, may receive the on behalf of all of them, provided that they consent.

The recipient acts as their authorized agent. The fact that one person physically receives the does not eliminate the need for each woman’s consent.

Synopsis

A woman can be only with her consent, while performed by a coerced man can still take effect. Several women may be together with money if each receives the value of a , and an authorized agent may receive the for them.

הלכה ב

When “And You Too” Includes a Second Woman

If a man is consecrating a woman and, with her consent, places her into the hand of another woman,

The second woman is receiving the as an agent on behalf of the first woman.

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and as he placed the in the second woman’s hand, he said to her, “And you too,” or, “And you as well,” or similar wording—both women are .

The first woman is because the second woman receives the as her agent. The second woman is also because the man explicitly includes her in the act, and her silent acceptance is treated as consent. As in Halachah 1, the money must include at least a for each woman.

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But if he placed the in the second woman’s hand and said to her, “And you”—the woman who received the is only doubtfully .

Only the second woman’s status is doubtful; the first woman’s remain definite. The shorter phrase may mean “And you [are also ],” or it may be a question asking whether she would agree.

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Perhaps he intended only to find out what she was thinking, as though he had said to her, “And you—what do you say about this?” Accordingly, her accepting the may have been only because she understood that he was still asking what she wanted—and for that reason, her remain in doubt.

Her physical acceptance of the item does not resolve the ambiguity, because the very question is what she understood the man’s words to mean when she accepted it.

Synopsis

If the man clearly says “And you too” when a second woman receives the first woman’s , both are . If he says only “And you,” the second woman’s status is doubtful because the phrase may be either a declaration of or a question.

הלכה ג

Rejecting the or Directing Them Elsewhere

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If he said to her, “Become to me with this ,” and she took it and threw it down in front of him, or into the sea, or into a fire, or into another place where it would be lost—she is not .

She throws the money away immediately, as her response to his proposal. This shows that she rejects the . Throwing away money after knowingly accepting valid would not undo the marriage bond.

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If she said to him, “Give it to my father,” or, “to your father,” or, “to such-and-such a person,” and he gave it as she directed—she is not .

Merely directing him to give the money to someone else does not indicate that she is accepting it as . As explains, her instruction can instead show that she does not wish to receive the or accept the marital consequence attached to them.

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But if she said to him, “Give it to him so that he will receive it for me,” and he gave it to him—she is .

Here she explicitly appoints the recipient to accept the on her behalf. His receipt is therefore legally treated as receipt for her.

Synopsis

Discarding the demonstrates rejection. Directing the man simply to give them to someone else also does not create , but expressly appointing that person to receive them on her behalf does.

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Rejecting the or Directing Them Elsewhere

contrasts this response with a woman who initiates the proposal herself: “Give money to that person, and I will become to you.” There, her words express willingness to marry in return for the payment. Here, “Give it to my father” can instead dismiss the man’s proposal.

The discusses the first case in 5:21, including the man’s declaration of . The recipient there need not be her agent: the payment made at her request can create the relevant obligation, comparable to a guarantor.

Sources: Tosafot, 8b, “”; Rambam, 5:21.

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הלכה ד

When Are Placed on Property or Given to Another Recipient

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If she said to him, “Place it on the rock,”—she is not .

Simply telling him where to place the money does not by itself make that place a means through which she receives the .

But if the rock belonged to her, she is .

Since the place belongs to her, placing the there can count as transferring them into her possession.

If the rock belonged to both of them, she is doubtfully .

Because the location is jointly owned, it is unclear whether placing the there should be treated as sufficient delivery into her possession.

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If he said to her, “Become to me with this loaf,” and she said, “Give it to a poor person,”—even if that poor person depended upon her for support, she is not .

Her request does not show acceptance of : she can be asking him to fulfill his own obligation to give charity. Even if she normally supports this poor person, that obligation also rests on him.

If she said, “Give it to the dog,” she is not . But if the dog belonged to her, she is .

Because the dog belongs to her, giving the food to it at her direction is treated as providing the benefit of the to her.

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If the dog was chasing after her to bite her, and she said to him, “Give it to this dog,”—she is doubtfully .

Feeding the attacking dog benefits her by saving her from harm. But the man already has a obligation to help rescue her. Her request may therefore mean “fulfill your duty to save me,” rather than “I accept this rescue as the benefit of .” This is why the remain doubtful.

Synopsis

Placing on property can constitute receipt when the property belongs to the woman, but not when it belongs to someone else; jointly owned property creates a doubt. Giving the item to another recipient normally does not create , but a benefit received by the woman can change the result.

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When Are Placed on Property or Given to Another Recipient

The , citing the , discusses a woman who says from the outset, “Place the money here and I will be to you,” or “Give food to this dog and I will be to you.” In such a case, they treat the as doubtful.

The reason is that the man spent his money at her express request for the sake of , which may itself provide sufficient benefit to her. On the other hand, because the item was not actually transferred to a person receiving it on her behalf, the cannot be regarded as certainly effective.

Sources: Rama, 30:11; 30:18; 30:18.

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הלכה ה

When Her Response Shows Whether She Accepted His Proposal

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If a man was selling fruit, utensils, or similar items, and a woman came and said to him, “Give me some of these,” and he said to her, “If I give them to you, you will be to me”—if she answered, “Yes,” and he gave them to her—she is .

Her explicit “yes” shows that she accepts both the item and the proposal of attached to it.

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But if she replied, “Give me some of them,” or, “Throw them to me,” or words whose meaning is, “Do not play around with me about these matters; just give me what I asked for,” and he gave it to her—she is not .

Her response does not accept his marriage proposal. Instead, she is redirecting the conversation back to her original request for the goods.

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The same applies if he was drinking wine, and she said to him, “Give me a cup,” and he said to her, “If I give it to you, you are hereby to me with it,” and she responded, “Give me a drink,” “Let me drink,” or, “Give it,” “Give me to drink,” or, “Throw it to me”—she is not , because her words indicate only, “Just give me a drink, and do not play around with me about anything else.”

The decisive issue is not simply that she physically accepts the item. Her words show whether she is accepting it as . Here, they show that she wants only the food or drink she originally requested, not the marriage proposal he attached to it.

Synopsis

When a man conditions giving an item on , an explicit “yes” accepts the proposal. If the woman responds only by repeating her request for the item, her words indicate that she is not accepting the , even if she then receives the item.

הלכה ו

Why Require Two Valid

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If a man consecrates a woman in the presence of only one witness—his are not treated as valid, even if both the man and the woman acknowledge that the took place;

require two valid to establish the marriage bond itself. The couple’s agreement afterward cannot replace that requirement.

all the more so if he her with no at all. If he her in the presence of who are disqualified by law, she is not .

who are invalid on the level cannot create the witnessed legal act required for .

If the are disqualified by Rabbinic law, or if there is doubt whether the are disqualified by law: if the man wishes to proceed with the marriage, he must perform again in the presence of valid ;

Because the first cannot be relied upon with certainty, a new, unquestionably valid act of is required before the marriage continues. This new act also requires her consent, as stated in Halachah 1.

but if he does not wish to proceed with the marriage, she requires a from him by Rabbinic law.

When the were disqualified only by Rabbinic law, the Sages nevertheless require a before she may marry someone else.

When the may have been disqualified by law, the concern is different: there is genuine doubt whether valid -level took effect.

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Even if the woman denies the matter and contradicts the , saying, “You did not me”—she is compelled to accept the .

Her denial does not remove the concern created by the witnessed act.

The same rule applies to every case of doubtful : if he wishes to proceed with the marriage, he performs again in a manner that is certainly valid; and if he does not wish to proceed, she requires a from him because of the doubt.

Doubtful cannot simply be ignored. If they both wish to marry, they establish definite with her consent; otherwise, a is needed to resolve the doubtful bond.

Synopsis

require two valid . One witness—or disqualified by law—does not establish . When the ’ validity or the themselves are doubtful, the couple must either perform definite or end the possibility of marriage with a .

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Why Require Two Valid

The explains one reason why the couple’s own admission cannot replace : marriage affects not only them but everyone else as well, since once the woman is married she becomes unavailable for with others. Their agreement therefore cannot by itself create that status.

The gives a deeper distinction. In ordinary financial disputes, serve primarily as —evidence establishing what happened. In and divorce, function as : their presence is part of what gives the legal event effect. The develops this distinction as well.

Sources: Rashba, 65b; Tumim, 90:14; Tzafenat Paneach, , entries on testimony and witnesses to .

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הלכה ז

A Minor Girl’s Capacity for Rabbinic

If a minor boy performs , his are not valid.

A boy below the age of majority does not have the legal capacity to create .

But if an adult man consecrates a minor girl who is an orphan, or a minor girl who has left her father’s authority:

“Orphan” here means that her father has died. A girl can also have left her father’s authority through a previous completed marriage, followed by widowhood or divorce, while she is still a minor. In these cases her father cannot accept -level for her, but the Sages recognized a form of Rabbinic marriage.

if she is younger than six years old, even if she shows unusually advanced understanding, and is capable of recognizing and distinguishing matters, there is no status of at all, and she does not require .

is the procedure by which a minor girl ends a Rabbinic marriage without a . Below age six, however, her acceptance has no marital effect even on the Rabbinic level, so there is nothing to annul.

If she is ten years old or older, even if her understanding is very limited, since she accepted the knowingly, she is with a Rabbinic marriage that can be ended through .

“Ten years old or older” here still means a girl who has not reached majority. Her voluntary acceptance is sufficient for this Rabbinic institution; the rules for an adult woman are different.

If she is between six and ten years old, her level of understanding is evaluated: if she can understand and distinguish the basic meaning of marriage and , she requires if she wishes to end the marriage; but if she cannot, she does not acquire even the Rabbinic status of that requires , and she therefore does not need to perform .

Between six and ten, chronological age alone does not determine the result. Her actual understanding of marriage is what decides whether the Sages recognize the .

Synopsis

A minor boy cannot create . For a minor girl eligible for Rabbinic , capacity depends on age and understanding: below six there is no , between six and ten her understanding is evaluated, and from ten onward, while still a minor, her voluntary acceptance creates a Rabbinic marriage.

הלכה ח

How Ends a Minor Girl’s Rabbinic Marriage

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What does it mean that a minor girl is subject to ? If she was and no longer wishes to remain with her husband—she must perform in the presence of two people, and say, “I do not want so-and-so, my husband,” and she leaves the marriage without a , as will be explained in . Such a girl is called a —one who ends the marriage through .

is not a form of divorce. It is the minor girl’s rejection of a marriage that was recognized only through Rabbinic law.

Why may she leave without a ? Because her are not -level , but rather the of this minor girl were instituted by the Sages, and they remain contingent:

They have legal force while she is a minor, but their ultimate status depends on what occurs as she reaches adulthood.

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if she remains with her husband until she reaches adulthood—her become completed, and she becomes a fully married woman, and her husband does not need to perform with her again after she reaches adulthood;

This does not mean that the original minor’s automatically become -level merely because she reaches adulthood. As explained in , once she reaches majority without first rejecting the marriage, Rabbinic law requires a before she may marry someone else. If the couple then have marital relations after she reaches majority, the marriage becomes binding by law. See 11:6, 8.

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but if she does not wish to remain with him—she must perform , and she leaves without a .

Synopsis

A minor girl’s Rabbinic marriage can be ended through while remains available. Once she reaches adulthood without rejecting the marriage, she requires a ; marital relations after adulthood establish a -level marriage.

הלכה ט

of a Deaf-Mute and of a Person Without Mental Capacity

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If a deaf-mute man marries a woman with full capacity, or a deaf-mute woman marries a man with full capacity—their are not fully effective by law, but were established by Rabbinic law.

Here means the classical category of a person who is both deaf and unable to speak. It does not mean every person with hearing loss: the distinguishes someone who can speak but cannot hear, or can hear but cannot speak ( 2:26).

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Therefore, if a man with full capacity comes and consecrates the fully competent wife of a deaf-mute man—she becomes fully to the second man,

Because her first marriage has only Rabbinic force, it does not prevent -level from the second man from taking effect.

and the second man gives her a , after which she is permitted to remain with her deaf-mute husband.

Although the second man’s took effect, once he gives her a the allows her to return to the first, Rabbinic marriage.

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But if a man who lacks mental capacity consecrates a woman with full capacity, or a man with full capacity consecrates a woman who lacks mental capacity—there are no at all, neither by law nor by Rabbinic law.

is a specific category of impaired understanding, not a general label for anyone with a mental illness. The Sages established a Rabbinic marriage for the classical category, whose marriage can be stable and enduring, but not for a person classified as a .

Synopsis

The Sages established a Rabbinic form of marriage for a deaf-mute person in the classical category of , but not for a . Because the ’s marriage is only Rabbinic, -level from a fully competent second man can still take effect.

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of a Deaf-Mute and of a Person Without Mental Capacity

The disagrees with the ’s ruling that, after receiving a from the second man, the woman may remain with her deaf-mute husband. The defends the Rambam: since the first marriage existed only through a Rabbinic institution, the Sages did not apply to it every restriction that would follow from a -level marriage.

Other authorities qualify the Rambam further and distinguish between a second man who merely performed and one who proceeded to . According to that view, if the second relationship reached , she may no longer return to the deaf-mute husband after the second man divorces her.

Sources: Raavad, 4:9; Maggid Mishneh, 4:9; 44:2.

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הלכה י

Reproductive Incapacity Does Not Prevent

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If a consecrates a woman, whether he is a or a , and similarly, if an is —these are fully valid .

A has a congenital condition preventing male reproductive capacity; a has lost that capacity through an injury or human action. An has the physical signs of the female developmental condition described in Chapter 2. These conditions do not prevent from taking effect. That does not mean every proposed marriage involving such a person is permitted; the question here is legal effectiveness.

Synopsis

Reproductive incapacity does not prevent from taking effect. Whether the man is classified as a or , or the woman as an , their are fully valid.

הלכה יא

of a or Androgynous Person

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If a or an androgynous person a woman, or if a man either of them—the are doubtful, and a is required because of the doubt.

A has concealed sexual organs, so it is not apparent whether the person is male or female. An has both male and female sexual organs. These are the bodily categories described in Chapter 2. The uncertainty concerns whether take effect in the particular direction attempted—giving or receiving them—so a is required because of the doubt.

Synopsis

When a or androgynous person either gives or receives , the are treated as doubtful, and a is required because of that uncertainty.

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of a or Androgynous Person

The , citing the , records a stricter position regarding an androgynous person: the Tur considers an androgynous person to have the status of a male for , so given by that person are fully binding rather than merely doubtful.

Sources: Rama, 44:5; Tur, 44.

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הלכה יב

with Forbidden Relatives and a

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If a man consecrates one of the women forbidden to him as an , he has accomplished nothing—because do not take effect with an ,

are the severe -prohibited relationships carrying , a form of Divine punishment. generally cannot take effect in these relationships. A is the exception stated immediately below, even though relations with her also carry .

with the exception of a ; for if a man consecrates a , she is fully .

The prohibition of relations with a does not prevent the themselves from taking effect.

Nevertheless, it is not proper to do so.

The therefore distinguishes between the legal effectiveness of the and whether one should deliberately perform in this situation.

Synopsis

do not take effect with women who are forbidden as , but a is an exception: with her are fully valid, even though one should not deliberately perform in that situation.

הלכה יג

When a Married Woman Accepts from Another Man

If a married woman extended her hand and accepted from another man in the presence of her husband, she is to the second man,

Ordinarily, cannot take effect with a married woman. Here, however, her conduct in front of her husband is treated as evidence that she had already been divorced.

because when a woman tells her husband to his face, “You divorced me,” she is believed. There is a presumption that a woman would not brazenly make such a claim in her husband’s presence.

The presumption is that she would not falsely assert, directly in front of her husband, that he had divorced her. Accepting from another man in his presence is therefore treated like making that claim openly.

But if another man her outside her husband’s presence, the second do not take effect with her, unless she brings proof that she was divorced before accepting the second . When she acts outside her husband’s presence, she may be willing to behave brazenly.

Without her husband standing before her, the presumption no longer supports the assumption that she had already been divorced, so the second cannot be accepted as valid without proof that the first marriage had ended.

Synopsis

If a married woman accepts from another man in front of her husband, she is believed to have already been divorced because of the presumption that she would not act so brazenly to his face. Outside his presence, she needs proof of the divorce before the second can take effect.

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When a Married Woman Accepts from Another Man

The limits this ruling. In his view, her conduct is enough to require a from the second man, but not enough to permit her to marry him or to collect her from the first husband without independent proof that she was divorced.

The adds that in later times, when greater brazenness became more common, the presumption relied upon here could no longer be applied in the same way.

Sources: Raavad, 4:13; Rama, 17:2.

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הלכה יד

with Other Forbidden Relationships

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If a man consecrates one of the , or a woman forbidden to him by a negative commandment, or by a positive commandment, and similarly, if a consecrates the co-wife of a woman who underwent —the are fully valid.

These relationships are forbidden, but unlike the discussed above, the prohibition does not prevent from taking legal effect.

are additional relatives forbidden by Rabbinic decree. here means relationships prohibited by a negative commandment that do not carry ; means prohibitions derived from a positive commandment. Unlike the of Halachah 12, these prohibitions do not prevent from taking effect.

Here the deceased brother had two wives, and one of his surviving brothers performed with one of them. The other widow is now forbidden to the remaining brothers by a prohibition derived from a positive commandment, but with her can take effect. The correct reading is ; the identifies as a copying error and cites the ’s own correction (, 4:14).

The exception is a who was to an unrelated man, whose are doubtful.

A is the widow of a man who died without descendants and who is still bound to his brother for or . Until that bond is resolved, she may not marry an outside man. “Without descendants” describes the deceased husband; she may have children from another marriage.

The Sages were uncertain whether take effect with a as they do with others whose relationships are prohibited by a negative commandment, or whether do not take effect with her, as with an .

The uncertainty is not whether marrying the unrelated man is permitted—it is forbidden—but whether the prohibition prevents the attempted from taking legal effect.

Although he is forbidden to enter marriage with any of these women, he must terminate the by giving a .

Where took effect—or may have taken effect—the prohibition against the marriage does not erase the legal bond. A is therefore required.

Synopsis

Many forbidden relationships still allow to take effect, even though the marriage itself is prohibited. A who accepts from an unrelated man is a special case of doubt, and any effective or possibly effective must be ended with a .

הלכה טו

with Non-Jews, Servants, and an Apostate Jew

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If a Jewish man consecrates a non-Jewish woman or a Canaanite maidservant—the are not valid, and after the attempted her status remains exactly as it was beforehand;

The attempted create no marriage bond at all. “Canaanite servant” and “maidservant” here refer to the ’s legal status of slavery, not to an employee or domestic worker.

Similarly, if a non-Jewish man or a Canaanite servant attempted to a Jewish woman, their are not valid.

In these cases, the parties do not have the capacity to create Jewish with one another.

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But if a Jewish apostate consecrates a Jewish woman—even though he willingly worships idolatry—the are fully valid, and she requires a from him.

His serious transgression does not remove his status as a Jew for purposes of . The marriage bond therefore takes effect and can be ended only through a .

Synopsis

do not take effect between a Jew and a non-Jew or Canaanite servant. By contrast, a Jewish apostate remains legally capable of creating full , and the woman therefore requires a .

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with Non-Jews, Servants, and an Apostate Jew

writes that when a Jewish apostate has a Jewish woman, he should be compelled to give her a because of the concern that remaining married to him may cause her to violate Jewish law.

Sources: Rav David Cohen, Responsa, part 9, responsum 1, cited in LaAm, 4:15, note 90.

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הלכה טז

of a Woman Who Is Half Free and Half a Maidservant

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If a man consecrates a woman who is half a maidservant and half a free woman—her are not fully complete until she becomes completely free;

Half-free status can arise when two people own a slave jointly and one frees their share. The woman is partly free and partly still subject to servitude; this prevents her original from creating a complete marriage bond.

once she becomes completely free, her become fully completed, like the of a minor girl who reaches adulthood, and the first man does not need to perform a new act of with her.

The explains that freedom alone does not make the first certainly complete. If she and the first man then have marital relations after she is freed, that establishes the complete bond, as with the minor girl discussed in Halachah 8. The following case concerns a second man’s before those subsequent relations.

If another man came and her after she had become completely free, her status is one of doubtful with both men.

Before subsequent marital relations with the first man, it remains uncertain whether emancipation completed his or ended them. Accordingly, if a second man consecrates her at that point, she needs a from each because of the doubt.

Synopsis

with a woman who is half free and half a maidservant do not initially create a complete marriage bond. After emancipation, subsequent relations with the first man complete the bond according to the . Before then, a second man’s leave her doubtfully to each man.

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of a Woman Who Is Half Free and Half a Maidservant

Why does the first say that her become complete, yet then treat both men’s as doubtful? The reads the comparison to a minor who reaches adulthood as crucial: subsequent marital relations establish the complete bond. Freedom alone leaves unresolved whether the original were completed or ended. This explains why the second man’s can still matter before those relations.

Sources: Maggid Mishneh, 4:16; 43b.

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הלכה יז

The ’s and a Man Who Is Half Free

What is the mentioned by the ? It is a woman who is half a maidservant and half a free woman whom a Hebrew servant .

The ’s category of refers here to this unusual combination of partial freedom and a relationship with an , a Hebrew servant.

If a man is half a servant and half a free man and he a free Jewish woman, the are doubtful.

Because he is partly a servant and partly free, the effectiveness of his remains unresolved, and they are therefore treated as doubtful.

Synopsis

A is a woman who is half maidservant and half free and was by a Hebrew servant. When a man who is half servant and half free consecrates a free woman, the are doubtful.

הלכה יח

Performed While Drunk

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If a drunk man performs —his are valid, even if he is very intoxicated.

Ordinary intoxication, even when severe, does not automatically remove the legal awareness necessary for .

But if he reached the level of intoxication experienced by , his are not valid.

“’s intoxication” refers to a state in which the person is entirely unaware of what he is doing. At that point, he lacks the conscious intent necessary to create .

This matter requires careful consideration.

Determining whether a person was merely very drunk or had actually reached the level at which he was unaware of his actions can be difficult. The case therefore requires careful factual evaluation.

Synopsis

Even severe drunkenness does not necessarily invalidate . They fail only when the man was so intoxicated that he was unaware of his actions, and determining whether that threshold was reached requires careful evaluation.

הלכה יט

When the Are Worth Less Than a

If a man consecrates a woman with less than a , she is not .

A is the minimum monetary value required for performed with money itself.

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If he her with food, a utensil, or something similar that is worth less than a —she is doubtfully , and she requires a because of the doubt; because perhaps this item is worth a in another place.

The doubt applies to an object whose value may vary from place to place. Even if it is worth less than a locally, it may have sufficient value elsewhere.

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From this you learn that whenever a man performs with an item of monetary value—if it is worth a in that region, the are certainly valid; but if it is not worth a there, the are doubtful.

The therefore distinguishes between actual money worth less than a , which cannot create , and an object whose market value may be sufficient elsewhere.

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It appears to me that if he her with cooked food or with a vegetable that will not keep, or something similar—if the item is not worth a in that place, she is not at all; because such an item cannot reach another place before it spoils and is ruined, and will no longer be worth anything.

The possibility of greater value elsewhere matters only if the item could realistically retain that value until reaching such a market. A perishable item that will spoil before then does not create that doubt.

This reasoning is sound, and it is appropriate to rely upon it.

Synopsis

with less than a of actual money do not take effect. An object worth less than a locally can create doubtful because it may be worth more elsewhere, unless it is perishable and could not retain that value long enough to reach another market.

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When the Are Worth Less Than a

The records a dispute concerning a case where it is known with certainty that the item is worth a somewhere else. Some authorities regard the as certainly valid, while others maintain that because the item is worth less than a in the place of the , its status remains doubtful.

Sources: Beit Shmuel 31:6.

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הלכה כ

Later Wedding Gifts Do Not Repair Invalid

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If a man consecrates a woman with less than a , or consecrates two women with a single , even if he later sends wedding gifts—the do not take effect.

The later gifts do not repair the original , which lacked the minimum value required when they were performed.

are gifts customarily sent in connection with an intended marriage. Here, sending them afterward does not give legal effect to that were invalid when originally performed.

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Similarly, if a minor boy performed , even if he later sent wedding gifts after reaching adulthood—she is not ;

His later adulthood does not retroactively give legal force to the that he attempted while he was a minor.

because he sent the gifts on account of the original , which were invalid .

Since the gifts were sent as a continuation of the original ineffective act, they are not treated as a new act of in their own right.

Synopsis

Later wedding gifts do not repair that were invalid from the outset, whether because the original were worth less than a or because they were performed by a minor. The gifts are viewed as continuing the original invalid act, not as creating new .

הלכה כא

Receiving Through Her Hand, Bosom, or Property

When a man consecrates a woman with money or with a document, he does not need to place the directly into her hand;

Physical placement in her hand is not the only way for her to acquire the . What matters is that they enter a place legally treated as belonging to her, with her consent.

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rather, once she agrees that he may throw the to her, and he throws them—whether into her hand, into her bosom, into her courtyard, or into her field—she is .

Her hand, her bosom, and property belonging to her can all function as means through which she receives the . Her prior consent to this form of delivery is essential.

A courtyard does not acquire the for her simply because she owns it. It must meet the requirements for acquisition through property, such as being guarded for her or her standing beside it. The disputed case of a courtyard guarded only by the giver is discussed in Dig Deeper.

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If she was standing in a domain belonging to the man—he must place the into her hand or into her bosom.

Because the surrounding property belongs to him rather than to her, simply throwing the into that domain does not transfer them into her possession. They must reach something that is legally hers, such as her hand or bosom.

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If she was standing in a domain belonging to both of them, and, with her consent, he threw the toward her, but they did not reach her hand or her bosom—the are doubtful.

Because the domain belongs jointly to both of them, it is uncertain whether placing the there should be treated as a transfer into her possession.

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Even if she said to him, “Place my on this spot,” and that spot belonged to both of them—the remain doubtful.

Her specific instruction does not remove the uncertainty created by the fact that the place itself is jointly owned.

Synopsis

A woman can receive through her hand, her bosom, or property belonging to her when she consents to that form of delivery. Property belonging solely to the man does not serve as her means of acquisition, while jointly owned property creates doubtful .

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Receiving Through Her Hand, Bosom, or Property

The requires the woman’s courtyard or field to be protected sufficiently for it to acquire the on her behalf. The suggests that the may rely here on the general laws of acquisition that he states elsewhere.

The explains that the Rambam applies the ordinary acquisition requirements here: the courtyard must be guarded for her, or she must be standing beside it. If she is absent and the courtyard is guarded only by the giver, the authorities disagree; the are therefore doubtful. The also discusses this limitation.

The ( 4:21) explains why jointly owned property can create a doubt even where a similar arrangement would not work for an ordinary sale: it is possible that the man effectively allows her use of his share of the property for the purpose of receiving the .

Sources: Tur, 30; Kessef Mishneh, 4:21; Rambam, 4:9; Beit Shmuel 30:3; Chelkat Mechokek 30:2; Maggid Mishneh, 4:21.

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When Thrown Are Closer to Him or to Her

If the man and woman were standing in a public domain, or in a domain belonging to neither of them, and he threw the toward her: if they are considered closer to him, she is not ; if they are considered closer to her, she is .

“Closer” here does not simply mean physical distance. The defines it according to which person is able to guard the where they landed.

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If they are considered equally between them, or there is doubt whether they were closer to her or closer to him, and the were lost before they reached her hand—she is doubtfully .

Because the were lost before the uncertainty could be resolved by their actually reaching her, it remains unclear whether they had already become legally associated with her.

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What is meant by “closer to him” and “closer to her”? Whenever he is able to guard the and she is unable to guard them—this is considered “closer to him.”

The determining factor is the ability to guard the , not a measurement of physical distance.

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If she is able to guard them and he is unable to guard them—this is considered “closer to her.”

Her exclusive ability to guard the is what makes them considered “closer to her.”

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If both of them are able to guard it, or neither of them is able to guard it—this is considered equally between them.

“Neither can guard it” means that neither can guard it alone, although together they can. If even together they cannot guard it, the do not take effect. The doubtful case is one in which the ability to guard the money is shared, rather than belonging exclusively to either person.

Synopsis

When are thrown in a public or neutral domain, “closer” is determined by the ability to guard them. If only she can guard them, the take effect; if only he can, they do not. If each can guard them, or they can guard them only together, the are doubtful. If neither can guard them even together, they do not take effect. Doubt about which person could guard them also requires clarification, as discussed in Dig Deeper.

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When Thrown Are Closer to Him or to Her

The explains that the ’s case of uncertainty over whether the were closer to him or to her can refer to conflicting testimony: one pair of says the were within his ability to guard, while another pair says they were within hers. If the only themselves simply do not know what happened, the may fail because the act was never witnessed with sufficient certainty.

The understands the Rambam in light of his ruling in that the woman must be close enough to bend down and take the object. Other authorities do not require this additional condition.

Sources: Beit Shmuel 30:9; Makneh, , 30:5; Rambam, 5:13; , 5:15.

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Chapter 4 at a glance

Consent, , and legal effect

The chapter explains when take effect, when they remain doubtful, and when they have no legal effect.

  • A woman can be only with her consent, while performed by a coerced man can still take effect. Several women may be together with money if each receives the value of a , and an authorized agent may receive the for them.
  • require two valid . One witness—or disqualified by law—does not establish . When the ’ validity or the themselves are doubtful, the couple must either perform definite or end the possibility of marriage with a .
  • The Sages established a Rabbinic form of marriage for a deaf-mute person in the classical category of , but not for a . Because the ’s marriage is only Rabbinic, -level from a fully competent second man can still take effect.
  • with less than a of actual money do not take effect. An object worth less than a locally can create doubtful because it may be worth more elsewhere, unless it is perishable and could not retain that value long enough to reach another market.
  • When are thrown in a public or neutral domain, “closer” is determined by the ability to guard them. If only she can guard them, the take effect; if only he can, they do not. If each can guard them, or they can guard them only together, the are doubtful. If neither can guard them even together, they do not take effect. Doubt about which person could guard them also requires clarification, as discussed in Dig Deeper.
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