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Testimony, Presumptions, and the Bond

Whether a widow requires or depends on facts about her husband’s children and brothers. This chapter examines whose statements establish those facts, when an existing presumption remains binding, and how unresolved doubt affects her ability to remarry.

is the marriage of a childless man’s widow to his eligible surviving brother. releases her from that obligation so she may marry someone else. The central question throughout this chapter is whether an obligation arose when her husband died. An exempting child’s later death does not create a new obligation. When a pregnancy is involved, its outcome must also be established.

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הלכה א

A Husband’s Statement That He Has Children

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A man who says, “This is my son,” or “I have sons”—

is believed, and his statement exempts his wife from both and .

A surviving child exempts the deceased man’s widow from these obligations. His acknowledgment therefore establishes a fact that allows her to remarry without first undergoing .

The exemption is not limited to sons: a daughter or a surviving descendant through a son or daughter can also exempt the widow. The offspring may be from this wife or another woman. “Qualifying offspring” means offspring who count under the rules explained in chapter 1, 3–5.

His credibility rests on : he already has another means of freeing her from the future obligation. He could give her a , a Jewish bill of divorce, rather than falsely claim to have a son. That available alternative supports accepting his statement here ( 134b).

Synopsis

A husband is believed when he identifies his son or states that he has sons, thereby exempting his wife from and .

הלכה ב

A Husband’s Statement That He Has Brothers

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If he says, “This is my brother,” or “I have brothers”—

he is not believed to prohibit his wife from marrying others and leave her bound to a ;

This ruling concerns a man who was previously presumed to have no brother. His statement alone does not establish a new obligation that would prevent his widow from remarrying until she undergoes or .

A is an eligible surviving brother who shares the deceased husband’s father. A brother related only through their mother does not create this obligation.

for his intention is to restrict her after his death.

The concern is that he is inventing a brother to prevent her from freely remarrying. Unlike the statement in the previous , this claim would impose a restriction rather than release her from one.

Synopsis

When a man was presumed to have no brother, his claim that he has brothers does not establish a obligation for his widow.

הלכה ג

Denying Known Brothers and Investigating Possible

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If he was established as having brothers and, at the time of his death, said, “I have no brothers,” he is not believed.

Under this ruling, his denial does not overturn the established presumption, called a , that he has brothers. Even a statement made near death does not remove the concern that he is trying to spare his wife the obligation of or .

His ability to release her by giving her a does not suffice here. The does not accept that argument as grounds for contradicting the established brotherhood.

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Similarly, if he says of someone established as his brother, “This is not my brother,” he is not believed.

If he was not established as having brothers, but a report circulated concerning her that could testify that her husband had brothers, and those were in another country,

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even if he said at the time of his death, “I have no brother”—

she must take the report into account and wait until the reported arrive and are questioned.

The report has not yet established that a brother exists. Nevertheless, it identifies potential whose testimony could establish a obligation. She therefore cannot disregard it and remarry on the strength of her husband’s denial.

Synopsis

A husband cannot deny an established brotherhood to release his wife. A report of who know of brothers must also be investigated before she remarries.

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Denying Known Brothers and Investigating Possible

The ( 157:9) distinguishes denying brothers from claiming to have sons. Saying “I have no brothers” contradicts the established presumption. Saying “I have sons” can leave that presumption intact: the brothers may exist, but surviving offspring would exempt the widow. The second statement introduces an additional fact rather than denying the known brotherhood.

The , commenting on this , understands the to require concern even when the report about has not been formally substantiated in court. The report requires investigation; it does not itself become conclusive proof that the husband had brothers.

Sources: Beit Shmuel, 157:9; Maggid Mishneh on 3:3.

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Follow up before passing it on

A report about possible does not establish that the husband has brothers. Nevertheless, it requires investigation before the widow’s status can be resolved. Taking a report seriously includes checking what it actually establishes.

Someone tells you that tomorrow’s community has been canceled. Before passing the message along, check with the organizer. The report deserves attention, but it is not yet an established fact. A little care with our words can prevent confusion and help others. Truthfulness includes being clear about what we know and what still needs checking.

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Verify one practical detail before passing it along.

Suggested reflection on 3:3.

הלכה ד

Doubtful Paternity Requires

If a man had forbidden relations with a woman, whether unmarried or married, and she became pregnant,

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and he said, “This fetus is mine,” even if she agrees with him—

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although the child is regarded as his son for inheritance, the child’s status remains doubtful for .

His acknowledgment has legal effect regarding inheritance, as discussed in 4:1. It does not, however, establish paternity sufficiently to exempt his widow from and .

Here, the pregnancy resulted from relations outside marriage. His knowledge that he had relations with her does not establish that he fathered the child. There is no marital presumption linking the child to this man, who was not the woman’s husband. If she was married to someone else, the ordinary marital presumption instead points to her husband. This is why his acknowledgment does not have the same effect as the statement in halachah 1.

The widow whose status is being considered is this man’s own wife. The ruling concerns a situation in which he has an eligible surviving brother and no other offspring who would independently exempt her.

Just as she had forbidden relations with him, she may have had forbidden relations with another man.

How, then, can it be known that this is certainly his son, when there is no established presumption supporting that conclusion?

The concern is possible paternity by another man, rather than a finding that another relationship definitely occurred. The parties’ acknowledgment alone does not eliminate that possibility.

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Rather, the matter remains doubtful, and we apply the stringent consequences of that doubt—

she must undergo and may not undergo .

Both possibilities must be considered. If the child belongs to another man, the deceased may have left no offspring, so his widow still needs . If the child is his qualifying offspring, she is exempt from , and relations with his brother would be forbidden. addresses the first possibility without permitting the prohibited relationship created by the second.

Synopsis

Acknowledged paternity may establish inheritance rights while remaining doubtful for . The man’s widow therefore requires and may not undergo .

🔎Dig DeeperDoubtful Paternity Requires

Doubtful Paternity Requires

The examines how this uncertainty fits with 8:14. Under the conditions stated there, a woman who bore a child following relations with a may eat —the portion of agricultural produce reserved for —on account of that child. This permission applies after birth; pregnancy alone does not entitle her to eat . The comparison raises the question of when the child may be attributed to the man with whom she had relations.

The Maggid Mishneh questions whether the same uncertainty should apply when the woman is associated with this man alone and is not suspected of relations with others. In that situation, he finds no satisfactory basis for distinguishing the question from the ruling. His discussion explores a qualification to the uncertainty rather than treating every acknowledgment of paternity as conclusive.

The ( 156:9) itself records the requirement of without expressly making that distinction. The (156:15) discusses the differing approaches to this question.

Sources: Maggid Mishneh on 3:4; 8:14; , 156:9; Beit Shmuel, 156:15.

הלכה ה

One Witness Can Establish Facts Affecting

One witness is believed to testify to a that her husband died, and she may undergo on the strength of his testimony;

A is a widow subject to or . Here, the witness establishes her husband’s death; where the other requirements for are present, she may proceed on that basis.

or that her died, or that a son was born to her husband, thereby permitting her to marry another man.

These statements remove the obligation in different ways. The ’s death releases her when no other eligible brother remains. Testimony about a son establishes offspring whose existence exempts her from and . Merely reporting a birth does not suffice if the child does not establish that exemption.

“Another man” here means a man outside the brothers to whom she would otherwise be bound. Unlike halachah 4, this testimony establishes an exempting son; it is not merely an acknowledgment of uncertain paternity.

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Even a slave, a woman, or a non-Jew speaking casually may provide testimony concerning the ’s death,

The non-Jew must be relating the death naturally, without intending to provide testimony.

This final clause expressly discusses evidence of the ’s death. It does not, by itself, determine which forms of evidence are accepted concerning the birth of a son.

just as such testimony may permit a married woman to remarry, as we explained in .

The special rules for establishing a husband’s death, discussed in , chapters 12–13, also apply here to establishing the ’s death.

Synopsis

The accepts one witness to establish a husband’s death for , or a ’s death or the existence of an exempting son to permit marriage to another man. The special forms of evidence accepted for a husband’s death also apply to a ’s death.

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One Witness Can Establish Facts Affecting

disagrees with accepting one witness to establish a ’s death. The ( 158:3) cites this restrictive position. The (158:2) also records authorities who support accepting the testimony.

A separate dispute concerns testimony that a son was born. The and the Rosh reject relying on one witness for this purpose: a birth, unlike a death, is not necessarily a fact that will inevitably become publicly verifiable. The ( 156:8) follows the ’s acceptance of one witness, while the Rama records the opposing position.

Sources: Raavad on 3:5; , 156:8; Rama, 156:8; Rama, 158:3; Beit Shmuel, 158:2.

הלכה ו

Women Whose Testimony Is Not Accepted

The five women whose testimony concerning another woman’s husband’s death is not accepted likewise may not testify for her that her died.

These are her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law’s daughter, her husband’s other wife, her husband’s brother’s wife, and her husband’s daughter from another woman, as explained in 12:16.

The Sages identified these relationships as ones in which hostility may undermine the reliability of testimony intended to permit the woman to remarry. Although a woman’s testimony about a death is generally accepted under the special rules discussed previously, these five women are excluded. The same concern applies whether the reported death is that of the husband or the .

The rules governing this testimony are the same as those governing testimony about the husband’s death, regarding who contradict one another about the ’s death and in every other respect.

The special evidentiary rules apply as a complete framework. Accepting one witness does not mean that any report is sufficient regardless of conflicting testimony or other limitations. Those questions are governed by the same rules explained in .

Synopsis

The five women excluded from testifying about a husband’s death are also excluded from testifying about a ’s death. The same evidentiary rules govern both kinds of testimony.

הלכה ז

Two Brothers’ Wives Cannot Release Each Other

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If two return from overseas, and each says, “My husband died”—

The women were married to two brothers who shared the same father. Neither husband left offspring that would exempt his widow, and there is no additional surviving brother. Each woman’s husband is therefore the other woman’s potential .

each is prohibited from marrying another man because of the other woman’s husband;

Each woman is believed concerning her own husband’s death. That establishes her widowhood, but does not establish that her has also died. For that second fact, she would have to rely on the other woman’s statement.

for her husband’s brother’s wife is not believed to testify for her that her died, as we have stated.

The other woman belongs to one of the five excluded relationships listed in halachah 6. Consequently, each woman’s testimony establishes her own husband’s death without releasing the other woman from her obligation.

Synopsis

When two brothers’ wives each report their own husband’s death, neither may freely remarry. Each lacks accepted testimony establishing the death of her .

הלכה ח

One Witness Releases the Other Widow

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If one of these women has a witness who testifies that her husband died—

This continues the case in which both women say that their husbands died. An additional, accepted witness now confirms the death of one brother.

The woman who has the witness remains prohibited, because her restriction concerns her , rather than her husband.

Her own statement already established her husband’s death. The witness confirms that same fact, but supplies no evidence that her husband’s brother died. Her unresolved obligation therefore remains.

Even if the other woman actually remarries, her remarriage does not provide accepted proof of her husband’s death for purposes of releasing this widow. Her conduct does not replace the testimony needed to establish the ’s death.

The woman who has no witness is permitted, since the witness testified that her died, and she is believed when she says, “My husband died.”

The same man is a husband to the first woman and a to the second. For the second woman, the witness establishes precisely the fact that was missing. Her own statement establishes her husband’s death, and the witness establishes her ’s death. Since no other remains, she may remarry.

Synopsis

A witness confirming one brother’s death releases the other brother’s widow. His own widow remains restricted because the death of her has not been established.

Picture the CaseA concrete example

was married to , and was married to ’s only brother, . Neither husband left children. Both women return from overseas and say that their husbands died. A reliable witness confirms ’s death. still cannot freely remarry, because ’s death has not been established by accepted testimony. may remarry: she is believed concerning , her own husband, and the witness establishes ’s death, removing her obligation.

הלכה ט

Children Remove One Widow’s Dependence on Her

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If one of these women has children and the other has no children—

Here, neither woman has an additional witness establishing her husband’s death. Each relies on her own statement, as in halachah 7. The children are offspring of the husband whose death she reports and qualify to exempt his widow.

the woman who has no children is prohibited, and the woman who has children is permitted.

The childless widow still needs accepted evidence that her died. The other woman’s statement cannot supply that evidence.

The widow whose husband left children has no obligation. Her own statement establishes her husband’s death, and his children exempt her regardless of whether his brother is alive.

If another is present here, he performs with both women.

This clause returns to the original case in which both widows are childless. It does not permit with the woman whose husband left children.

These women were originally married to different brothers, so they represent two separate households. This differs from two wives of the same deceased man, only one of whom may undergo with his brother (chapter 1, 9–11).

If a third eligible brother is present, each woman’s statement establishes her own husband’s death sufficiently to permit with him. They do not need to establish the other absent brother’s death, because the third brother can perform whether that brother is alive or dead. He may alternatively perform with each widow.

Synopsis

A widow whose husband left children may remarry on the strength of her own report of his death. A childless widow remains restricted, but when both widows are childless, a third eligible brother can perform or with each.

הלכה י

The Third Brother’s Death and Divorce Have Different Effects

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If the who performed with them dies, they are prohibited from marrying another man, just as they were originally.

This continues the case of the third brother who performed with both childless widows. He now dies without leaving offspring that would exempt them, and there is no other known surviving brother apart from the two whose deaths were reported.

For each woman, the death of her original husband was accepted on her own testimony, but the death of the other brother was never established by testimony accepted for her. If that brother is still alive, the third brother’s childless death leaves her subject to . She therefore cannot freely remarry merely because the third brother has died.

If they underwent and were then divorced, they are permitted to marry other men.

Actual followed by a releases each woman from the bond, including her possible obligation to the absent brother. The third brother’s death could leave her bound to another surviving brother; his divorce ends the marriage without creating a new obligation.

Synopsis

If the third brother dies childless after performing , the unresolved status of the absent brothers still prevents the women from freely remarrying. If he divorces them after , they are released.

Picture the CaseA concrete example + illustration

was married to , and to his brother . Both women report that their husbands died, but neither has accepted testimony establishing the other brother’s death. Their third brother, , performs with both widows. All three brothers share the same father, and none left qualifying offspring. If now dies, still lacks accepted evidence that died, and still lacks accepted evidence that died; neither may freely remarry. If instead divorces them after , each is released and may marry another man.

David was married to Rachel; Yosef was married to Leah. David, Yosef, and Moshe share the same father. Each widow reports her own husband’s death, but lacks accepted evidence of the other brother’s death. Moshe performs yibbum with both. If he dies childless, neither may freely remarry; if he gives each a get after yibbum, both are released.
These are alternative endings. All three brothers share a father; no qualifying offspring exempt either widow.
הלכה יא

Personal Interest Limits Testimony About a Death

Although a woman is believed when she says, “My husband died,” and may marry or undergo ,

a is not believed when she says, “My died,” so as to marry another man. Since the prohibition is a negative commandment, she might regard it lightly.

Marrying another man while still married involves a far more severe prohibition than marrying while bound to a . The latter remains a prohibition, but she may regard it less seriously. The Sages therefore feared that her desire to remarry could lead her to report her ’s death falsely. Her credibility concerning her husband’s death does not automatically extend to her ’s death.

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Similarly, a is not believed when he says, “My brother died,” so that he may perform with his brother’s wife, for he may have desired her.

His statement would permit him to marry the very woman whom he may wish to marry. That personal interest prevents relying on his testimony for this purpose.

A woman is not believed when she says, “My sister died,” so that she may enter her sister’s household,

Entering her sister’s household means marrying her sister’s husband. A man may not marry his wife’s sister while his wife is alive. The woman’s possible desire to marry him creates a concern about accepting her statement that her sister died.

and a man is not believed when he says, “My wife died,” so that he may marry her sister,

until two testify that her sister died; only then may she enter her sister’s household.

Neither the husband’s statement nor the surviving sister’s statement is sufficient to permit this marriage. The death must be established by two .

For one witness was accepted only to release an , as we have explained.

An is a woman unable to remarry because her existing marriage has not been released or her husband’s death has not been established. The special allowance addresses that predicament. Here, the obstacle concerns the particular marriage these two people want, rather than a woman’s inability to marry anyone. The allowance is therefore not extended to permit their marriage.

Synopsis

A woman’s credibility concerning her husband’s death does not extend to her ’s death. Personally interested statements also do not establish a death so as to permit the particular marriage the speaker desires.

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Personal Interest Limits Testimony About a Death

The (, first series, responsum 27) distinguishes firsthand testimony from testimony based on another person’s report.

A firsthand witness risks having his own account exposed as false if the supposedly deceased husband returns. Someone repeating another person’s report could instead claim that his source misled him. In his analysis, this distinction helps explain why firsthand testimony may be accepted on a basis, while additional forms of testimony require the special Rabbinic allowance for an .

In responsum 33, he further examines how this approach fits the ’s statement in 5:2 that accepting one witness to permit a widow to remarry is a Rabbinic allowance. These are questions about the legal basis for accepting testimony, and his analysis should be distinguished from the specific practical rulings stated in this .

Sources: Noda B’Yehudah, first series, 27; Noda B’Yehudah, first series, 33; 5:2.

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Make room for another perspective

The ’s statement that his brother died is not accepted to permit him to marry the widow. His possible desire to marry her creates a concern about relying on his testimony for that purpose.

Our wishes can influence how we understand a disagreement. When you feel certain that the other person was entirely wrong, consider whether your desire to be right is affecting your judgment. You may still have a valid concern. Giving the other person’s perspective a fair hearing can help you respond with greater honesty and humility, and recognize your own responsibility where there is something to correct.

Try today

Before defending your position, try to state the other person’s concern fairly.

Suggested reflection on 3:11.

הלכה יב

A Newly Reported Differs from a Known

Accordingly, if a woman went overseas with her husband and her ,

The husband was known to have an eligible brother, and there were no offspring exempting her. Her established status was therefore that she would require or if her husband died.

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and returned saying, “My husband died, and afterward my died,” or, “My died, and afterward my husband died,” she is not believed.

She is not believed to establish her ’s death and thereby permit herself to marry another man. Changing the reported order of the deaths does not overcome the limitation explained in the previous .

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But if she went overseas with her husband alone and returned saying, “A was born for me overseas, and he died”—

Here, her husband was presumed to have no eligible brother when they departed. She now reports that a new paternal brother was born to her husband while they were abroad, but that this brother also died.

For this newly born brother to create a obligation, he must have been born before her husband’s death. A brother born only afterward would not become her .

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whether she says, “The died, and afterward my husband died,” or, “My husband died, and afterward the who was born for me died,” she is believed,

for the mouth that established the prohibition is the mouth that established the permission.

The possible obligation arises entirely from her own statement that a brother was born. Without that statement, she would be presumed free of a obligation upon her husband’s death. We therefore accept her accompanying statement that this newly reported brother died, and she may marry another man.

Synopsis

A woman cannot release herself by reporting the death of a known . When the ’s existence is known only through her own report, she is also believed that he died.

Picture the CaseA concrete example

When and Daniel left on their journey, Daniel was presumed to have no brother. returns and reports that Daniel’s father had another son while they were away. She says this new brother was born before Daniel died, but that he too has since died. Daniel left no qualifying offspring. Since ’s own report is the only basis for thinking a brother existed, her accompanying report that he died is accepted, and she may remarry. If that brother had been independently known to exist, her statement alone would not establish his death.

הלכה יג

A Known Son and the Order of the Deaths

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If a woman went overseas with her husband and her son, and returned saying, “My husband died, and afterward my son died,” she is believed,

The son was her husband’s qualifying offspring. According to her report, he was alive when his father died, so his existence exempted her from and . His later death does not create an obligation that did not arise at her husband’s death.

for she had an established presumption of being permitted to marry another man.

This presumption concerns what her status would be upon her husband’s death. Since he was known to have a son, she was presumed to be exempt from . Her report preserves that status.

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If she says, “My son died, and afterward my husband died,” she is not believed so as to undergo ,

Assuming there is an eligible surviving brother and no other exempting offspring, this account would mean that her husband died childless. It would change her established status and permit . Her statement is not accepted sufficiently to authorize that relationship, because she may wish to marry her brother-in-law.

“She is not believed” means that her statement is insufficient to establish the permission she seeks. It does not mean that her account has been proved false. Consequently, her statement can prevent even when it cannot establish an exemption from .

Nevertheless, we take her statement into account, and she undergoes but not .

Her statement cannot be ignored entirely. If her son really died first, she needs release from the obligation. addresses that possibility, while withholding permission for because her husband may actually have been survived by his son.

Synopsis

When a son was already known to exist, the widow is believed that her husband died first, preserving her exemption. If she reports that the son died first, she requires but may not undergo .

Picture the CaseA concrete example + illustration

Before traveled with her husband, , and their son, everyone knew that had this son. also had an eligible brother, . returns and says, “ died first; our son died afterward.” She may remarry: the known son is presumed to have survived his father, and his later death does not create a obligation. If she instead says, “Our son died first; died afterward,” her report cannot permit with . But it raises the possibility that she needs release, so she undergoes and may not undergo .

Sarah and David have a known son. David’s eligible brother Yosef survives. If Sarah reports that David died before their son, she may remarry. If she reports that the son died first, her report raises a possible obligation but does not permit yibbum: she needs chalitzah, not yibbum.
These timelines show ’s alternative reports. A son’s later death does not create a new obligation.
הלכה יד

A Newly Reported Son and the Order of the Deaths

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If she went overseas with her husband alone and returned saying, “A son was born to me overseas; he died, and afterward my husband died”—

In this case, her husband was presumed to have no offspring, and an eligible brother existed. Her established status was therefore that she would be permitted to undergo upon her husband’s childless death.

she is believed and may undergo , for when she departed she had an established presumption of being permitted to her .

Her account leaves that presumed status intact. Although she reports the birth of a son, she also reports that he died before his father, so no exempting offspring remained when her husband died.

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If she says, “My husband died, and afterward the son who was born to me died”—

she is not believed so as to exempt herself from and ,

Her report would mean that her husband was survived by a son, permanently exempting her. Unlike the previous , however, this son was not independently known to exist. Her statement does not suffice to remove her established obligation.

Nevertheless, we take her statement into account, and she undergoes but not .

She cannot freely remarry, because her claimed exemption has not been established. Yet is also prohibited: if her account is true, her husband left a surviving son, and relations with his brother would be forbidden.

The permission to perform in this second case is subject to the qualification in the following .

Synopsis

When no son was previously known, a report that a newly born son died before the husband permits . A report that he survived the husband does not establish an exemption, but prevents ; is subject to the next ’s conditions.

Picture the CaseA concrete example + illustration

When and her husband, Daniel, traveled overseas, Daniel was presumed childless and had an eligible brother, . returns and reports that a son was born during their trip. If she says the son died before Daniel, she may undergo : her account preserves the original presumed obligation. If she says Daniel died while the son was alive, she cannot establish an exemption through that report alone, but is prohibited because her account may be true. Suppose was already forbidden to marry a because of an earlier divorce; she may then undergo , as qualified in halachah 15.

Leah and Daniel departed with no known son; Daniel had an eligible brother, Moshe. Leah reports that a son was born overseas. If she reports that the son died before Daniel, yibbum is permitted. If she reports that Daniel died first, her report does not establish exemption but prevents yibbum. In this example, Leah was already forbidden to a Kohen because of an earlier divorce, so chalitzah is permitted subject to halachah 15.
Unlike halachah 13, no son was previously known. in the second scenario is subject to halachah 15; it is not automatically permitted in every case.
הלכה טו

When Must Also Be Withheld

When does this apply? When she was already disqualified from marrying a , such as when she was a divorced woman or a ,

This qualifies the previous ’s second case, in which she reports that her newly born son survived her husband.

A is a woman disqualified from marrying a because of the priestly marriage laws—for example, a daughter born from a ’s prohibited union with a divorced woman. If she was already prohibited from marrying a , performing does not impose a new restriction in that respect.

or when she says, “We were in a cave when they died.”

The case is one in which she was alone with them when they died, so are not expected to arrive later and establish the order of their deaths. The significance lies in the absence of potential , rather than the cave itself.

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But if neither condition applies, she may not undergo ,

lest she undergo and later come and testify that events occurred as she said, and that her husband died first,

so that this proves to have no effect, and she marries a ,

If her son was alive when her husband died, she never became obligated in or . The unnecessary procedure would therefore not give her the status of a woman whose valid prohibits marriage to a .

and an observer sees that she underwent and married a , and mistakenly concludes that a woman who underwent may marry a , being unaware of the who came.

The observer would know about the visible procedure, but not the later evidence showing that it was legally unnecessary. To prevent that mistaken conclusion, the Sages withhold in this case.

Therefore, she may neither undergo nor undergo . Instead, she remains presumed bound to a , as she was when she departed, until come.

remains prohibited because her account may be true, in which case her husband left a surviving son. is withheld because of the concern about a later marriage to a . She must therefore wait for testimony that clarifies her status.

Synopsis

In the previous ’s doubtful case, is permitted when the widow was already prohibited to a or when later are not expected. Otherwise, she must await clarification without undergoing either or .

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When Must Also Be Withheld

The ( 156:18) cites an interpretation of that places this case where have already established that both the husband and son died, leaving the order of their deaths unresolved.

Without that independent evidence, Tosafos argues that her statement could be accepted through : she could have reported that the newly born son was still alive, thereby establishing an exemption. Once establish that he died, that alternative is unavailable.

The Beit Shmuel questions whether this reasoning fits the ’s approach to a woman’s report about a newly born son. This interpretation therefore should not be treated as an automatic exception to the Rambam’s ruling.

Sources: Beit Shmuel, 156:18.

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Make the exception understandable

is sometimes withheld because an observer could misunderstand a later marriage to a . The observer might see the procedure without knowing the evidence that showed it was unnecessary.

People learn from what they see us do, especially children. Suppose your family usually keeps phones away during supper, but tonight you are waiting for an important call about a relative. A brief explanation helps your child understand the exception: “Tonight I need to keep the phone nearby because someone needs our help.” Explaining the reason preserves the ordinary routine while showing how to respond thoughtfully when someone needs care.

Try today

When making an exception to a family routine, explain its reason briefly.

Suggested reflection on 3:15.

הלכה טז

An Absent Co-wife May Have Borne an Exempting Child

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Similarly, if a woman’s husband and her co-wife went overseas, and people came and told her, “Your husband died”—

A co-wife is another woman married to the same husband. Two have established the husband’s death. The unresolved question is whether his other wife bore offspring who exempt both widows.

The case assumes that an eligible exists and that no offspring were already known to exempt them. A qualifying child born to either wife exempts both wives.

she may neither undergo nor undergo , however much time passes, until it becomes known whether her co-wife gave birth.

The possibility of a child prevents : if her husband left qualifying offspring, relations with his brother would be forbidden. This concern applies even if the co-wife was not pregnant when she departed, since she may have become pregnant while living with their husband overseas.

The reason for withholding is explained next.

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Why should she not undergo nine months after her husband’s death and thereby be permitted to marry another man in either event—

The nine-month wait addresses the possibility that the absent wife is still carrying a child conceived during the husband’s lifetime. Waiting does not establish whether she bore an exempting child; that uncertainty remains.

for if her co-wife gave birth, this woman is exempt, and if her co-wife did not give birth, this woman has undergone ?

would appear to resolve either possibility. If a qualifying child was born, no release is necessary; if no such child was born, supplies the required release.

It is a decree lest, after the , it become known that her co-wife bore a viable child,

so that the procedure proves not to have been a legally effective , and she marries a after undergoing it,

If a qualifying child exempted her, she never required . The unnecessary procedure would therefore not give her the status of a —a woman whose valid prohibits her from marrying a .

and an observer who does not know about the who came concludes that a may marry a , and testifies that he saw such a marriage authorized by a court.

The observer would know about the visible procedure but not the later evidence showing that it was unnecessary. He could mistakenly treat this marriage as proof that a woman who truly required may marry a .

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Therefore, if she was already prohibited from marrying a , she undergoes after nine months and may marry another man.

Since she cannot marry a regardless of whether was necessary, the concern about an observer drawing the wrong conclusion does not arise.

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But the co-wife who was with her husband when he died waits ninety days, like other , and then undergoes or ,

The wife who accompanied him follows the ordinary waiting period, discussed in chapter 1, halachah 19. This ruling concerns her when she has no child or pregnancy of her own preventing those procedures.

She need not be concerned about her co-wife in the other country, since her husband was not with that woman in that country.

The husband lived overseas with the accompanying wife, so the woman at home must consider the possibility that her co-wife conceived there. The accompanying wife need not assume that the woman left behind had an unnoticed pregnancy from before the journey.

Synopsis

An absent co-wife’s possible child can prevent both and . A widow already prohibited to a may undergo after nine months. The accompanying wife ordinarily follows the ninety-day waiting period without concern for an unknown pregnancy of the wife left behind.

Picture the CaseA concrete example + illustration

has two wives, and , and no known qualifying offspring. stays home while and travel overseas. Two return and establish that died, but they do not know whether bore a child. ’s eligible brother is alive. cannot undergo , because may have borne a child who exempts both wives. Assuming was eligible to marry a , she also cannot simply undergo after nine months: later evidence of an exempting child could show that the procedure was unnecessary, creating the misunderstanding described in this . She must await clarification.

David has two wives: Rachel stays home while Leah travels overseas with him. Yosef is David’s eligible surviving brother. Two witnesses establish David’s death, but whether Leah bore an exempting child is unknown. Such a child would exempt both wives. Rachel, who was eligible to marry a Kohen, must await clarification; neither yibbum nor chalitzah is permitted merely because nine months passed.
This diagram follows ’s case, assuming she was eligible to marry a . The explains the concern about a later misunderstanding and its exception.
הלכה יז

Established Status Is Not Overturned by Remote Possibilities

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If a woman’s husband died and her mother-in-law was overseas—

Here, no eligible brother was known to exist, and the mother-in-law was not known to be pregnant.

she need not be concerned that her mother-in-law gave birth and that a had already been born for her in another country, for the Sages did not institute a decree concerning this possibility.

The possible concern would be that her mother-in-law bore an eligible paternal brother who was alive when her husband died. Such a birth could create a obligation. Without evidence of that development, however, she need not investigate whether it occurred.

Instead, we maintain her established presumption, and she is permitted.

Her presumed freedom from a obligation remains in place. The mere possibility that a new brother was born does not prevent her from remarrying.

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The same applies when a woman’s husband died and he had a son in another country: she is permitted to marry another man.

We do not suspect that the son died; rather, we maintain her established presumption.

The son is presumed to have remained alive when his father died, thereby exempting the widow. She need not obtain fresh confirmation of his survival merely because he lives elsewhere.

Synopsis

A widow need not suspect an unknown birth of a or an unreported death of her husband’s son. Her established presumption of exemption remains binding.

🔎Dig DeeperEstablished Status Is Not Overturned by Remote Possibilities

Established Status Is Not Overturned by Remote Possibilities

The ( 157:11) explains that the presumption permitting her to remarry is also supported by the combined possibilities that would not produce a . Even if her mother-in-law became pregnant, the pregnancy might end without a live birth, or the child might be a girl. Neither outcome creates a obligation.

The following addresses the different situation in which a pregnancy was already known.

Sources: Beit Shmuel, 157:11.

Live ItPreserve goodwill when the facts are unclear

Preserve goodwill when the facts are unclear

An unknown possibility that a brother was born does not overturn the widow’s established status. A known pregnancy, however, requires investigation because a concrete fact may change the outcome.

A friend has not answered your message, and you wonder whether he is upset with you. Your history of friendship still deserves weight; he may simply be busy. Considering a favorable explanation helps preserve warmth instead of allowing an imagined slight to become resentment. If he later tells you that something hurt him, listen sincerely and address it. Goodwill and a willingness to correct our conduct can work together.

Try today

When someone’s behavior is unclear, consider a reasonable favorable explanation before reacting.

Suggested reflection on 3:17–18.

הלכה יח

A Known Pregnancy Requires Investigation

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If her mother-in-law departed while pregnant, the widow must take that possibility into account,

Unlike the previous , there is now a known pregnancy that may have resulted in the birth of an eligible paternal brother. The concern is supported by an established fact, rather than the possibility of an entirely unknown pregnancy.

and she may not marry another man until she knows the outcome of her mother-in-law’s pregnancy,

for a may have been born for her before her husband’s death.

The timing matters. An eligible brother born before her husband died could create a obligation. A brother born only after his death would not. She must establish whether an eligible paternal brother was born before her husband’s death and was still alive when her husband died.

Synopsis

When the mother-in-law was known to be pregnant, the widow must establish whether an eligible brother was born before her husband’s death and remained alive at that time before marrying another man.

הלכה יט

Mistaken Reports of the Order of Death

If a woman’s husband and son went overseas, and people came and told her, “Your husband died, and afterward your son died,” and she married,

According to that testimony, her husband was survived by his son. She was therefore exempt from and and married a man other than her .

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and it later became known that the events occurred in the opposite order, she must leave the marriage, but the child is of valid lineage.

Her son actually died first. Assuming no other exempting offspring remained and an eligible brother survived, she was bound to a when she married the other man. She must therefore separate from that husband, as discussed in chapter 2, halachah 18.

The child’s valid lineage does not make the marriage permissible. Relations with another man while she is bound to a violate a negative commandment, but do not give their child the status of a .

If they told her, “Your son died, and afterward your husband died,” and she underwent ,

This account indicated that her husband died without surviving offspring, so she married his brother through .

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and it later became known that the events occurred in the opposite order, she must leave the marriage,

Her husband actually died first, while his son was still alive. She was therefore exempt from . Relations with his brother remained prohibited as relations with a brother’s wife, without the permission created by the of .

The child born before or after the news is a .

Here, “the news” means the discovery that the original report was mistaken. The child has the status of a whether born before or after that discovery.

A has a specific status carrying restrictions on whom he or she may marry. This relationship violates a prohibition punishable, when committed deliberately, by —a severe penalty commonly translated as “excision.” The child’s status results from the prohibited relationship even when the parents acted unknowingly because they relied on mistaken testimony.

Synopsis

If mistaken testimony leads a widow to marry another man while bound to a , she must leave, but the child is of valid lineage. If it leads her to perform when her husband actually left a surviving son, she must leave, and the child is a even when the violation was unintentional.

Picture the CaseA concrete example + illustration

’s husband, Daniel, and their only son die overseas. Daniel’s eligible brother survives. is told that Daniel died first, so she marries another man. Later, accepted evidence establishes that the son actually died first. She must leave the marriage, but their child is not a . Reverse the reports: is told that the son died first and therefore undergoes with . Later evidence establishes that Daniel actually died while his son was alive. was never permitted; she must leave , and a child from that relationship has the status of a , even though she relied on mistaken testimony.

Miriam’s husband Daniel and their only son die; Daniel’s eligible brother Moshe survives. First scenario: told Daniel died first, Miriam marries another man; later evidence shows the son died first. She must leave, but their child is not a mamzer. Second scenario: told the son died first, she undergoes yibbum with Moshe; later evidence shows Daniel died first while his son lived. She must leave, and a child of that relationship is a mamzer, whether born before or after discovery of the error.
Both scenarios require leaving the marriage. The different lineage outcomes follow from the prohibited relationship involved, even when the parents relied on mistaken testimony.
Sources & editorial method

Hebrew text: Mishneh Torah, Hilchos Yibbum VaChalitzah, Chapter 3. The Hebrew is preserved as the primary text and divided into short learning units.

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Chapter 3 at a glance

Testimony, Presumptions, and the Bond

Whether a widow requires or depends on facts about her husband’s children and brothers. This chapter examines whose statements establish those facts, when an existing presumption remains binding, and how unresolved doubt affects her ability to remarry.

  • A husband is believed when he identifies his son or states that he has sons, thereby exempting his wife from and .
  • When a man was presumed to have no brother, his claim that he has brothers does not establish a obligation for his widow.
  • A husband cannot deny an established brotherhood to release his wife. A report of who know of brothers must also be investigated before she remarries.
  • Acknowledged paternity may establish inheritance rights while remaining doubtful for . The man’s widow therefore requires and may not undergo .
  • The accepts one witness to establish a husband’s death for , or a ’s death or the existence of an exempting son to permit marriage to another man. The special forms of evidence accepted for a husband’s death also apply to a ’s death.
  • The five women excluded from testifying about a husband’s death are also excluded from testifying about a ’s death. The same evidentiary rules govern both kinds of testimony.
  • When two brothers’ wives each report their own husband’s death, neither may freely remarry. Each lacks accepted testimony establishing the death of her .
  • A witness confirming one brother’s death releases the other brother’s widow. His own widow remains restricted because the death of her has not been established.
  • A widow whose husband left children may remarry on the strength of her own report of his death. A childless widow remains restricted, but when both widows are childless, a third eligible brother can perform or with each.
  • If the third brother dies childless after performing , the unresolved status of the absent brothers still prevents the women from freely remarrying. If he divorces them after , they are released.
  • A woman’s credibility concerning her husband’s death does not extend to her ’s death. Personally interested statements also do not establish a death so as to permit the particular marriage the speaker desires.
  • A woman cannot release herself by reporting the death of a known . When the ’s existence is known only through her own report, she is also believed that he died.
  • When a son was already known to exist, the widow is believed that her husband died first, preserving her exemption. If she reports that the son died first, she requires but may not undergo .
  • When no son was previously known, a report that a newly born son died before the husband permits . A report that he survived the husband does not establish an exemption, but prevents ; is subject to the next ’s conditions.
  • In the previous ’s doubtful case, is permitted when the widow was already prohibited to a or when later are not expected. Otherwise, she must await clarification without undergoing either or .
  • An absent co-wife’s possible child can prevent both and . A widow already prohibited to a may undergo after nine months. The accompanying wife ordinarily follows the ninety-day waiting period without concern for an unknown pregnancy of the wife left behind.
  • A widow need not suspect an unknown birth of a or an unreported death of her husband’s son. Her established presumption of exemption remains binding.
  • When the mother-in-law was known to be pregnant, the widow must establish whether an eligible brother was born before her husband’s death and remained alive at that time before marrying another man.
  • If mistaken testimony leads a widow to marry another man while bound to a , she must leave, but the child is of valid lineage. If it leads her to perform when her husband actually left a surviving son, she must leave, and the child is a even when the violation was unintentional.
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