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Eligibility, Forbidden Relationships, and Overlapping Bonds

This chapter distinguishes between people who are eligible for or , those who require only one of these procedures, and those who have no obligation. It also examines how forbidden relationships and overlapping marital bonds affect a widow and her deceased husband’s other wife.

Throughout this chapter, the brothers relevant to share a father, and the deceased husband left no surviving child or descendant who exempts his widow from . A “co-wife” is another woman married to the same husband; the women need not be related to one another. Unless stated otherwise, each case assumes that the other conditions for are satisfied.

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הלכה א

Four Categories of Surviving Brothers

Some brothers are eligible for either or .

A is a surviving brother to whom his deceased brother’s widow is bound when the conditions for apply. establishes marriage through marital relations; releases the bond without marriage.

Other brothers are eligible for neither nor . They have no at all; rather, the widow is permitted to marry a man outside the family.

is the bond between the widow and an eligible surviving brother. Here, no such bond exists with the brother in question. If another eligible brother exists, however, his bond must still be resolved before she can marry outside the family.

Some brothers are eligible for , but not for .

And some brothers are eligible for , but not for .

In these last two categories, a bond exists, but only one procedure is available in the brother’s present status. The following three identify the brothers in each category.

Synopsis

Surviving brothers fall into four categories: eligible for both procedures, exempt from both, eligible for alone, or capable of alone.

הלכה ב

When No Bond Exists

The following have no at all: a and an ,

A is a man in the defined category of congenital reproductive incapacity, who never had a period of reproductive fitness. An is a person with both male and female sexual organs. These are specific categories, not general terms for every person who cannot have children. Inability to father children is also distinct from inability to have marital relations.

because they are incapable of fathering children and never had a period of reproductive fitness.

is directed toward perpetuating the deceased brother’s name. In these categories, the surviving brother was never capable of the procreation contemplated by the , so no bond arises with him. Halachah 4 distinguishes a man whose incapacity developed only after an earlier period of fitness.

Synopsis

A and an have no bond, because they were never reproductively fit.

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When No Bond Exists

The cites an opinion that treats an as male for these laws and therefore allows either or . The also records this alternative view, although the ’s exempting position appears to be favored.

The disagreement concerns the status of an : according to the Rambam, no bond arises with him; according to the other view, he can resolve that bond through either procedure.

Sources: Tur, 172; , 172:8.

הלכה ג

Can Take Effect When Cannot

The following can perform , but cannot perform : a , a , and a minor,

here refers to the ’s defined category of a person who neither hears nor speaks. denotes someone who lacks mental competence. These are legal categories; they should not be equated with every hearing impairment or mental-health condition.

because they lack the understanding required for .

requires the requisite competence and intent. , however, can take effect through the act of marital relations even without intent to fulfill the , as discussed in Chapter 2, halachah 3. Thus, “can perform ” here describes its legal effect; it does not mean that these individuals should be encouraged to do so. The minor’s case is qualified below.

When a performs , he can never divorce her,

because his marital relations make her fully married, whereas his divorce is not fully effective.

This ruling assumes that her marriage to the deceased brother was binding under law. That marriage gives rise to a -level bond. The surviving brother’s act of then establishes a full -level marriage with her, but his limited capacity to effect divorce cannot dissolve that marriage.

The distinguishes a case in which the deceased husband was also a : the original marriage was Rabbinic, and the surviving can end it through the recognized procedure of gestures.

A boy aged nine years and one day who performs cannot divorce her until he reaches adulthood, as we have explained.

At this age, his relations create a partial bond with the effect of an adult’s maamar—the Rabbinic act of preceding completed . They do not complete under law. A is a divorce document.

is the first legally binding stage of Jewish marriage, called “consecration” here. completes the marriage. already creates a marital bond that ordinarily requires a to dissolve.

Reaching adulthood enables him to give a , but does not itself complete the earlier act. If he has no further relations with her after reaching adulthood, she needs both a and to be released. If he completes through relations after reaching adulthood, a subsequent divorce requires a alone. See Chapter 5, 18 and 21.

Synopsis

can have legal effect even where cannot. A cannot end a -level marriage; a minor’s partial bond cannot be ended by his until adulthood.

הלכה ד

When Is Unavailable

The following perform , but not : cases of doubt, such as a woman who may be an ,

An is someone forbidden by a severe prohibition of the kind that excludes . When it is uncertain whether the widow falls into that category, cannot be performed, since it might involve a forbidden relationship. She cannot simply be released without either, since she might be eligible and therefore bound to the surviving brother.

The concern here is a possible forbidden relationship. Not every uncertainty about a marriage prevents ; halachah 7 distinguishes a doubt that presents no such risk.

a , a , and others with comparable forms of castration,

refers to specified damage to the testicles; refers to severing of the male organ. The precise conditions governing these categories and related reproductive injuries are detailed in , Chapter 16. Unlike the categories in halachah 2, the men discussed here had an earlier period of reproductive fitness.

and a very elderly man whose strength has diminished and who has become incapable.

The qualification concerns an elderly man who is no longer capable of marital relations; age alone is not the stated reason for excluding .

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If a has relations with the widow, he acquires her as his wife, since there was an earlier period of reproductive fitness.

A is a man whose reproductive organs were damaged through human action. His earlier reproductive fitness means that the bond exists, and the act of can establish marriage even though he was forbidden to perform it. The ruling concerns this defined category, not every form of acquired infertility.

He must divorce her with a , because he is forbidden to marry into the congregation.

The marriage taking effect does not make its continuation permitted. “The congregation,” or kahal, here refers to a defined category for marriage eligibility. This is a restriction on whom he may marry, not exclusion from the Jewish people. The ruling assumes that the widow belongs to the category he is forbidden to marry, so he must end this marriage through a .

A performs , but not , because this person’s status is uncertain.

A is a person whose genital area is covered by flesh, so that it cannot be determined whether the person is male or female. The uncertainty prevents treating the person as a definite male who may perform ; is performed because of the possible obligation.

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If the covering is opened and the person is found to be male, he may choose either or .

Once the uncertainty has been resolved and he is established as male, he is treated like another eligible male for these procedures.

All other brothers may perform either or .

Synopsis

Doubtful eligibility, specified reproductive injuries, and inability to have marital relations can require rather than . Where prohibited nevertheless establishes marriage, a is required to end it.

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Which Sister Was His Wife?

A man one of two sisters, but it is not known which sister received the . He then died without descendants, leaving one eligible brother.

That brother cannot perform with either sister: she might be the deceased’s wife, but she might instead be the sister of that wife, who is forbidden to him. Each possible widow therefore needs before she can marry outside the family.

The distinction

When she might be his brother’s widow, a bond may exist. When she might be that widow’s sister, may be forbidden. addresses the possible obligation without permitting the possible forbidden relationship.

הלכה ה

Four Categories of Widows

Some are eligible for either or .

are widows whose husbands’ deaths bring them within the laws of . Having classified the surviving brothers, the chapter now classifies the widows.

Other are eligible for neither nor . They have no at all and may marry a man outside the family.

Here, being excluded from both procedures means that no bond applies. These widows do not need before marrying someone else.

Some are eligible for , but not for .

And some are eligible for , but not for .

These last two categories still involve a bond; the distinction is which procedure is available in the widow’s present status. The following explain the circumstances that place a widow in each category.

Synopsis

Widows, like surviving brothers, may be eligible for both procedures, exempt from both, eligible for alone, or eligible for alone.

הלכה ו

Without the Capacity for

The following undergo , but not : a , a , and a minor,

A is a woman in the defined category of one who neither hears nor speaks. A is a woman who lacks mental competence. These are specific legal categories. The minor here is a girl who has not yet reached adulthood.

because they lack the understanding required to recite and comprehend.

These women lack the competence required for in their present status. The issue is not merely unfamiliarity with the Hebrew words of the ceremony. , however, can take effect without the same requirement of understanding and intent. A minor girl’s invalid is discussed in Chapter 4, halachah 16.

If the wishes to divorce the with a after having relations with her, he may do so.

This assumes that the himself has the legal competence to give a valid . The distinction from the in halachah 3 concerns who must give the : a cannot give the -level needed to end the marriage described there, whereas a competent husband can. Under law, the wife’s understanding and consent are not prerequisites for the divorce to take effect.

Synopsis

A , a , and a minor can undergo but cannot perform valid in their present status. A legally competent may subsequently divorce a with a .

הלכה ז

When a Doubt Prevents —and When It Does Not

The following undergo , but not : women forbidden by negative-commandment prohibitions, , and women forbidden by positive-commandment prohibitions, as will be explained.

These categories differ from an , a woman forbidden by one of the ’s severe prohibitions against certain relationships. The negative-commandment prohibitions mentioned here are marriage restrictions that do not have that severity. are additional relatives forbidden by Rabbinic law. A positive-commandment prohibition is a marriage restriction derived from a positive requirement.

In these categories, can still take effect despite the prohibition. The —the bond requiring or —therefore remains and must be resolved through . Halachah 10 explains this distinction.

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Any woman whose divorce is doubtful undergoes , but not , lest he enter a forbidden relationship with an ,

because his brother’s wife whom his brother divorced is forbidden to him as an .

The doubt concerns whether the deceased brother successfully divorced her before his death. If the divorce took effect, she was no longer his wife when he died, and cannot permit the surviving brother to marry her. If the divorce did not take effect, she remained married and is subject to the obligation. releases the possible bond without risking the forbidden relationship.

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But a woman whose consecration to his brother is doubtful is like all other and may undergo either or ,

because there is no concern here.

If the took effect, she is his deceased brother’s widow, and applies. If they did not take effect, she never became his brother’s wife and may marry the surviving brother through ordinary . Neither possibility creates the forbidden relationship present in the doubtful-divorce case. This assumes that she is otherwise permitted to him.

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Likewise, the wife of a , an elderly woman, and a woman who has become barren are like all other : he may choose either or ,

Here, the is the deceased husband; the surviving brother is otherwise eligible to perform the chosen procedure. Although a ’s ordinary marriage has Rabbinic rather than standing, his widow is still subject to the corresponding Rabbinic and obligations.

because the elderly woman and the woman who has become barren had an earlier period of reproductive fitness.

Present inability to bear children does not itself remove the obligation. These women had an earlier period of reproductive fitness, unlike the described in the next .

Synopsis

The specified marriage restrictions, Rabbinic kinship restrictions, and doubtful divorce require rather than . Doubtful without a possible forbidden relationship do not prevent . A ’s widow and women who previously had reproductive fitness remain eligible for either procedure.

הלכה ח

Women Exempt from Both and

The following are exempt from both and :

the wife of a or an , the wife of a , the wife of a minor, an , and a woman who is an ,

The terms , , , and minor describe the deceased husband, rather than the surviving brother. A belongs to the category of congenital male reproductive incapacity; an has both male and female sexual characteristics. An belongs to the defined category of congenital female reproductive incapacity. An here is a widow forbidden to the surviving brother by an prohibition.

The reasons for these exemptions differ, as the following passages explain.

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for it states, “His name shall not be erased from Israel” ( 25:6)—excluding a and an , whose names are already effaced,

since they have been incapable of fathering children from the beginning of their existence, they are treated as a distinct category.

The expression “whose names are already effaced” refers here to their congenital inability to produce descendants through whom their names could continue. It describes the basis of this legal exclusion, not their personal worth. Because they never had reproductive fitness, their widows are excluded from the obligation. Halachah 2 addressed these men as surviving brothers; this passage addresses them as deceased husbands.

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“And the firstborn whom she bears” ( 25:6)—excluding an , who has been incapable of bearing children from the beginning of her existence.

This distinguishes an from the elderly woman or woman who later became barren in halachah 7. Those women had an earlier period of reproductive fitness; an did not.

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“The wife of the deceased shall not be…” ( 25:5)—excluding the wife of a or a minor, because they have no marital status at all.

Here, the purported marriage was not established through valid ordinary : performed by a or a minor do not create the marital bond required for these laws. This differs from a ’s marriage, which has Rabbinic standing.

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“He shall take her as his wife” (ibid.)—excluding an , with whom he cannot establish marriage.

cannot take effect between the surviving brother and this woman. The positive commandment of does not override an prohibition carrying , the ’s punishment of spiritual excision. No bond therefore arises with that brother.

Synopsis

The specified congenital reproductive categories, the absence of a qualifying marriage, and an prohibition to the surviving brother exclude the widow from both and .

Live ItSee the Person Beyond the Category

See the Person Beyond the Category

This chapter carefully distinguishes between people’s capacities and their obligations. Those distinctions determine which procedures apply. They do not measure a person’s worth.

In , chapter 32, the grounds in the shared root of Jewish souls. Differences in outward circumstances should not obscure that deeper connection. A person who needs assistance, communicates differently, or cannot participate in the usual way is still someone to approach with respect and love. This becomes practical in small moments: speaking directly to someone rather than only to their companion, offering help without embarrassing them, or making room for someone who is easily overlooked.

Try today

Think of one person who may feel left out. Offer a greeting, an invitation, or practical help that respects their dignity.

Practical reflection inspired by 6:8. Supporting sources: , chapter 32.

הלכה ט

A Widow Who Is a Forbidden Relative of the

What is an example of a who is an to her ?

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For example, she is his wife’s sister, mother, or daughter—

These relationships are measured against the surviving brother’s wife. The widow could have been permitted to the deceased husband and validly married to him, yet be forbidden to the surviving brother because of his own family relationships. In the case of his wife’s sister, the prohibition applies while his wife is alive.

she is exempt from both and , and he has no with her at all,

This is a definite , so there is no bond with this brother to release. It differs from the possible in halachah 4, where is required because a bond may exist.

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as it states, “He shall take her as his wife and perform with her” ( 25:5)—

a woman with whom marriage is possible and can take effect is the one who is bound to the .

The decisive distinction here is whether can create a marital bond between them. With an , they cannot. The next addresses prohibited marriages in which nevertheless can take effect.

Synopsis

A widow who is a definite to the surviving brother has no with him and requires neither nor from him.

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His Brother’s Widow Is His Wife’s Sister

and are brothers; and are sisters. is married to , and is married to .

dies without descendants while is still alive.

cannot marry through because she is the sister of his living wife. She does not need from either: no bond arises between them.

The distinction

A valid marriage to the deceased does not mean the widow is permitted to every surviving brother. Here, ’s relationship to ’s living wife prevents a bond from arising with him.

Reuven and Shimon are paternal brothers married to sisters Leah and Rachel. Shimon dies childless while Leah lives. Rachel is Reuven’s wife’s sister and needs neither yibbum nor chalitzah from him.
is alive. The exemption concerns ; another eligible brother’s obligation must still be resolved.
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הלכה י

A Prohibited Marriage Can Still Resolve the Bond

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If the is forbidden to her by a negative-commandment prohibition, a positive-commandment prohibition, or as a , she undergoes , but not .

Why does she require ? Because marriage with her can take effect;

since take effect with these women, they are bound to the .

A prohibition does not always prevent marriage from taking effect. Unlike an , these women can enter a legally binding marriage with the surviving brother, even though the marriage is prohibited. Their therefore remains and requires .

Under the underlying law, they would undergo , since is a positive commandment,

The -level permission being discussed concerns the relevant negative-commandment prohibitions. It does not extend to a competing positive-commandment prohibition, which does not override. are prohibited by Rabbinic law; their underlying -level eligibility for remains.

and wherever a positive commandment conflicts with a negative commandment, the positive commandment overrides the negative commandment;

This principle applies under its governing conditions. It does not override an prohibition carrying , nor does it permit violating a competing positive commandment.

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Nevertheless, the Sages decreed that women prohibited by negative commandments and must not undergo , lest he have relations with her a second time,

when relations with her are forbidden and no applies, because the positive commandment applies only to the first act of relations.

The initial act establishes the marriage and fulfills the commandment. Later relations do not carry that same overriding . To prevent the couple from continuing a prohibited relationship, the Sages required instead of allowing the initial act of .

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Therefore, if he transgressed and had relations with his who was forbidden by a negative commandment or a positive commandment—and certainly if she was a —

he has acquired her fully as his wife and must divorce her with a ;

The act was prohibited, but the prohibition did not prevent a full marital bond from taking effect. A is therefore needed to end the marriage. Even in the case of a , whose prohibition is Rabbinic, he may not continue the relationship.

she and all her co-wives are permitted to marry outside the family, because they have been released.

Her co-wives are the other women who were married to the same deceased brother. The full acquisition resolves the household’s original and releases those other widows. The woman with whom he performed also needs the to end her new marriage before she may marry someone else. No is required to resolve this household’s original obligation.

Synopsis

These prohibitions do not prevent from arising, so is required. If prohibited nevertheless takes place, it establishes a full marriage and releases the co-wives; the woman herself must receive a to end that marriage.

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A Prohibited Marriage Can Still Resolve the Bond

Why does the mention positive-commandment prohibitions in the opening ruling and in the marriage’s subsequent validity, but omit them from the clause explaining the Sages’ decree?

The distinguishes between permission to perform and the marriage’s validity once it has occurred. Before the act, the competing positive commandment prevents permitting . Afterward, however, that commandment does not undo the acquisition already established.

He discusses two possibilities concerning the level of the initial prohibition. Even if it is prohibited under law, neither positive commandment has greater force than the other. Once has occurred, the competing commandment does not undo its marital acquisition. The marriage is therefore binding and must be ended with a .

Sources: , 6:10; Noda B’Yhudah, Mahadura Kama, 39, concluding discussion.

Live ItLet Hashem Guide the Good You Want to Do

Let Hashem Guide the Good You Want to Do

is a , yet this chapter shows that its application depends on the other involved. Wanting to fulfill a does not allow us to decide for ourselves which restrictions may be set aside.

The same care belongs in everyday . We may be enthusiastic about a good cause, but we still need to consider how we pursue it. A donation must come from money we may give. Time for additional learning must be arranged honestly around our responsibilities to others. , chapter 41, teaches that begins with accepting ’s authority. Our enthusiasm becomes service of when we allow His will to guide both the goal and the means.

Try today

Before taking on an additional mitzvah activity, check that your plan respects an existing obligation. Where the halachah is unclear, ask rather than assume.

Practical reflection inspired by 6:10. Supporting sources: , chapter 41.

הלכה יא

When a ’s Does Not Release the Co-Wife

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If a is a widow from , and a has relations with her, her co-wife is not released,

is the stage that completes marriage after . The —the High Priest—is the surviving brother here. His relations with the widow do not release another wife of the deceased from her obligation.

because a positive commandment does not override a negative commandment together with a positive commandment,

The widow’s previous marriage had reached , the completed stage of marriage. In the case addressed here, she is treated as a non-virgin for the ’s marriage restrictions. He therefore faces both the prohibition against marrying a widow and the positive requirement to marry a virgin. The positive commandment of cannot override both together. This differs from the negative-commandment prohibition alone discussed in halachah 10.

Since he did not acquire her through a complete -level acquisition, her co-wife is not permitted to marry a man outside the family until she undergoes .

A complete acquisition would resolve the deceased brother’s household obligation and release the co-wife. That complete acquisition did not occur here, so the co-wife’s obligation remains. The word “she” at the end refers to the co-wife: she must undergo before marrying someone else.

Synopsis

Relations between a and a widow from do not create the complete -level acquisition needed to release her co-wife. The co-wife still requires .

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When a ’s Does Not Release the Co-Wife

The questions why the specifically states that the co-wife is not released. His analysis of the Talmudic discussion indicates that when a woman is ineligible for under law, the prohibited relations do not release her own obligation either.

Why, then, does the Rambam mention only the co-wife? The Beit Shmuel identifies this difficulty and leaves room for a resolution, but does not spell it out.

Sources: Beit Shmuel, 174:3, concluding discussion.

הלכה יב

When the Deceased’s Marriage Never Took Effect

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If the was an to her husband—for example, he transgressed or acted mistakenly and married his paternal sister, and she then came before his brother—

The prohibition here concerns the woman’s relationship to the deceased husband. This differs from halachah 9, where the deceased’s marriage was valid but the widow was an to the surviving brother.

she is not his wife, because cannot take effect with her, and she is subject to neither nor .

Whether the man knowingly transgressed or acted in error, his attempted created no marriage. His death therefore cannot create a obligation for this woman: she was never legally his wife.

If she had a co-wife, that other woman undergoes either or .

Here, “co-wife” is a descriptive designation for another woman whom the deceased had validly married. Legally, the forbidden woman never became his wife, so the validly married widow was never her co-wife within his marital household. The forbidden woman therefore does not exempt that widow from or .

If this woman, who was an to the husband, is permitted to the ,

A woman can be a forbidden relative of one brother without being a forbidden relative of another. For example, the deceased’s maternal sister may have no family relationship to his paternal brother, whose mother is different.

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and the wishes to marry her and perform with her co-wife, he may do so.

He marries the first woman through ordinary marriage, since she was never his brother’s legal wife. He performs with the other woman, whose marriage to the deceased was valid. This does not constitute with two widows from one household: only the second woman belongs to the deceased’s marital household for these laws.

Synopsis

An to the deceased never became his legal wife and has no obligation. His validly married widow remains obligated. If the first woman is permitted to the surviving brother, he may marry her ordinarily while performing with the other widow.

הלכה יג

Prohibitions and Doubts That Affect the Widow’s Eligibility

If the was forbidden to her husband by a negative commandment, a positive commandment, or as a ,

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but was not forbidden to the on any of these grounds, she is permitted to the .

Unlike an prohibition, these prohibitions did not prevent the deceased’s from taking effect. She therefore became his wife and, upon his death without descendants, is subject to . A restriction that applied to the deceased does not automatically apply to the surviving brother.

For example, a a widow but died before and without having relations with her. His took effect despite the prohibition. If his surviving brother is an ordinary and she is otherwise permitted to him, the prohibition against a marrying a widow does not prevent that brother from performing .

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An exception is a man who took back his divorced wife after she had married another man and then died: she undergoes , but not .

After the intervening marriage ended, her first husband was forbidden to remarry her. If he nevertheless did so, the marriage took effect, but his subsequent death does not permit his brother to perform with her. is required to release the bond.

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Likewise, a who may be an to the or may have been an to her husband undergoes , but not .

When she may be an to the surviving brother, risks a forbidden relationship. is needed because, if she is not an , a bond exists.

The alternative concerning a possible relationship to the deceased presents a textual difficulty. Halachah 12 permits the surviving brother to marry a woman who was an to the deceased, provided that she is permitted to him. The wording reproduced here reads “or”; the questions that reading and proposes a textual correction, discussed below.

Therefore, if a man a woman with doubtful , and afterward his brother, who was married to her sister, died,

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and the widow came before him for , possibly being his wife’s sister, she undergoes , but not ;

If his took effect, the widow is his wife’s sister and is forbidden to him as an . If they did not take effect, she is not his wife’s sister and is subject to . He must therefore perform to release the possible bond, while avoiding because of the possible prohibition.

He must also divorce his wife with a because of the doubt.

The woman he originally may legally be his wife, so a is required to end that possible marriage. The addresses her possible marital bond; it does not resolve the widow’s possible bond, which requires . He cannot remain with the woman he after the , for the reason now explained.

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Both women are forbidden to him: his , because she may be an ,

and the woman he , because she may be a relative of his , who is forbidden like a , as we have explained.

A is a woman with whom a man performed . Her specified relatives, including her sister, are forbidden to him by Rabbinic law.

If the original were valid, the widow was an and the had no legal effect. But if those were invalid, the released a genuine bond, making the originally woman the sister of his . Because the facts remain uncertain, he may keep neither woman. The prohibition concerning a ’s relatives is discussed in Chapter 1, halachah 13.

Synopsis

A prohibition that applied only to the deceased generally does not prevent with an otherwise permitted brother. The remarried-divorcee case is an exception. A possible relationship to the requires , and doubtful involving two sisters can leave both women forbidden to him.

Picture the CaseA concrete example

Doubtful , Two Possible Reasons for a

gives , but it is uncertain whether they took effect. His brother is married to ’s sister, , and dies without descendants.

cannot perform with because may be his wife. He performs with instead.

He must then give a : if the were invalid, ’s was effective, and is now the sister of his ; if the were valid, a is needed to end his marriage.

The distinction

The uncertainty is not resolved by choosing one possibility. A for is required under either possibility, although the reason differs.

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Prohibitions and Doubts That Affect the Widow’s Eligibility

The questions the wording “an to the or an to her husband.” A possible relationship to the surviving brother explains why must be avoided. But if the woman is certainly permitted to that brother, why should uncertainty about her relationship to the deceased prevent him from marrying her?

If her marriage to the deceased was valid, she is eligible for . If it was invalid because she was an to him, she was never his legal wife and may marry the surviving brother ordinarily, as described in halachah 12.

The Kessef Mishneh first proposes deleting the clause concerning a possible relationship to the deceased. Alternatively, if the clause is retained, he proposes replacing “or” with “and,” referring to a woman who may be an to both the deceased and the surviving brother. These are proposed textual corrections; the Hebrew above preserves the text as given.

Sources: Kessef Mishneh, 6:13.

הלכה יד

An Also Exempts Her Co-Wife

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If a man’s brother died leaving two wives, one forbidden to her as an and the other not an —

Both women were validly married to the deceased, and one was an to the surviving brother at the time of the deceased’s death—for example, she is the surviving brother’s daughter. The other widow has no such personal relationship to him.

just as the is exempt from and , so too her co-wife is exempt,

and no with this household arose for him at all,

The exemption extends beyond the woman who is personally an . It also includes her co-wife—the other widow of the same deceased husband. Neither woman needs from this brother.

This differs from halachah 12. There, the woman was an to the deceased, so she never became his legal wife and could not exempt his validly married widow. Here, both marriages were valid, and one widow’s relationship to the surviving brother exempts the entire household from him.

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as it states, “Who will not build his brother’s house” ( 25:9)—

a household from which he can establish marriage with whichever woman he chooses is a household with which he has ,

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but a household that he cannot partly build, because marriage cannot take effect with that woman—he does not build even the portion that would otherwise have been permitted.

The verse speaks of the deceased’s “house,” treating his widows as one household for this law. When one widow is an with whom the surviving brother cannot establish marriage, the other widow is also excluded from with him. This concerns an prohibition; it does not mean that every lesser marriage restriction exempts a co-wife.

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Consequently, the ’s co-wife is herself an to him because she is his brother’s wife, since he has no with her.

Ordinarily, the obligation permits the surviving brother to marry his deceased brother’s widow. Here, that obligation never arises. The co-wife therefore remains forbidden to him under the original prohibition against his brother’s wife, even though she has no other forbidden relationship to him.

Synopsis

When one validly married widow is an to a surviving brother at the deceased’s death, her co-wife is also exempt from and with him. Without , the co-wife remains forbidden to him as his brother’s wife.

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One Forbidden Relative, Two Exempt Widows

’s brother is married to , who is ’s daughter, and to . Both marriages are valid.

dies without descendants.

is exempt from and with because she is his daughter. is exempt too, because she is ’s co-wife.

Neither may perform with .

The distinction

’s exemption also includes , her co-wife. does not need to be ’s own forbidden relative to be exempt from him.

Shimon is Rachel’s father and Reuven’s paternal brother. Reuven was validly married to Rachel and Leah. He dies childless. Rachel is an ervah to Shimon and Leah is her co-wife; neither requires chalitzah from Shimon.
Both marriages to were valid. Both women are forbidden to , and neither needs from him.
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הלכה טו

The Exemption Continues Through Later Marriages

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Therefore, if died leaving two wives, one an to and both eligible for —

, , and are brothers. died without descendants. One of his widows is personally forbidden to as an , but neither widow has an relationship to .

has no with this household, while both women are bound by to .

The same household can be exempt from one brother while remaining obligated to another. For , the exempts both herself and her co-wife. For , who is eligible to marry either widow, the obligation remains.

If performed with the woman who was the co-wife of ’s , and had another wife,

The woman married through was not personally ’s forbidden relative. Nevertheless, she had already been exempted from because she was the co-wife of his .

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and died, bringing both women before —both are exempt from and with :

also died without descendants. His marriage through does not make the previously exempted woman newly eligible for . Her continuing prohibition also exempts ’s other wife from .

the first because she had been the co-wife of an , and the second because she is that woman’s co-wife.

The first woman retains the prohibition that arose when died. The second woman is now her co-wife in ’s household and is exempted along with her. These exemptions concern specifically; another eligible surviving brother could still have a obligation.

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The same law applies to the co-wife of her co-wife, however far the sequence continues—

If another eligible brother performs with the later co-wife, has an additional wife, and then dies without descendants, the same principle applies again. The continuing prohibition to exempts the additional co-wife in that household as well.

because any woman with whom he has no remains permanently under the prohibition of a brother’s wife.

In this sequence, a woman who was excluded from ’s obligation does not become permitted to him through a later marriage to another brother. Her original prohibition remains, and it can exempt her later co-wives as well.

Synopsis

A woman exempted from a brother as the co-wife of an remains forbidden to him after a later marriage. If her new husband dies, she also exempts her new co-wife from that brother, and the same rule continues through further such marriages.

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A New Marriage Does Not Remove the Old Prohibition

is married to ’s daughter, , and to . When dies without descendants, is exempt from both widows: is his daughter, and is her co-wife.

Their brother performs with ; he is also married to .

later dies without descendants.

remains forbidden to despite her marriage to , and is now exempt from as ’s co-wife. Neither needs from him.

The distinction

’s later marriage to does not remove her prohibition to . is also exempt because she is now ’s co-wife.

Reuven dies childless leaving Rachel, Shimon’s daughter, and Leah. Both are exempt from Shimon. Levi performs yibbum with Leah and also has Miriam as his wife. Levi dies childless. Leah’s prohibition to Shimon continues and Miriam is exempt as her co-wife.
The continuing prohibition concerns . ’s marriage does not remove it.
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הלכה טז

A Brother Born After the Deceased’s Death

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Likewise, the wife of a brother who did not live at the same time as him has no with him—

This refers to a brother born after the married brother’s death. Although they share the same father, their lives never overlapped. The widow therefore does not become obligated to the younger brother through or .

For it states, “When brothers dwell together” ( 25:5), requiring that both live in the world at the same time.

“Together” here requires an overlap in their lifetimes. It does not mean that the brothers must have shared a home.

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If their lifetimes did not overlap, she is permanently an to him under the prohibition of a brother’s wife, and she exempts her co-wife.

Since no obligation arises between this brother and the widow, cannot permit the relationship. The prohibition against his brother’s wife therefore remains. As with other discussed earlier, her exemption also extends to her co-wife.

Synopsis

A widow has no bond with a brother born after her husband’s death. She remains permanently forbidden to him as his brother’s wife and also exempts her co-wife.

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The Brothers’ Lifetimes Never Overlapped

dies without descendants, leaving . His paternal brother is born only afterward.

Their lives never overlapped, so has no bond with .

The illustration also follows the later marriage described in halachah 17.

The distinction

Sharing a father is not sufficient in this case. had to be alive during ’s lifetime for a obligation with ’s widow to arise.

Reuven dies childless before his paternal brother Levi is born. Shimon performs yibbum with Reuven’s widow Rachel and also has Miriam as his wife. When Shimon dies childless, Rachel remains forbidden to Levi and Miriam is exempt as her co-wife.
may be born before or after ’s . What matters is that he was born after died.
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הלכה יז

A Later Marriage Does Not Remove the Original Prohibition

How does this apply? died leaving a wife, who became obligated to , and was born after ’s death,

, , and are paternal brothers. died without descendants. was already alive when died, so ’s widow became obligated to him. was born afterward and never lived at the same time as .

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whether was born before performed with ’s wife or after he performed with her—

’s wife remains permanently an to .

The decisive point is that was born after ’s death. ’s later marriage does not erase the woman’s original prohibition to , even if was already alive when performed .

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Therefore, if died and this woman and her co-wife came before , both are exempt from and .

performed with ’s widow and also had another wife. If then died without descendants, ’s former widow would remain an to . Her co-wife in ’s household would consequently be exempt as well.

Synopsis

The wife of a brother who died before the younger brother was born remains forbidden to that younger brother even after another brother performs with her. If that second brother dies, she also exempts her co-wife.

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Born Too Late for This Bond

dies without descendants, leaving . His brother is born afterward.

Their brother performs with and also has another wife, .

If then dies without descendants, remains forbidden to because was born after ’s death. is also exempt as ’s co-wife.

This applies whether was born before or after ’s marriage.

The distinction

The decisive event is ’s birth after ’s death. ’s later cannot erase ’s original prohibition to .

Reuven dies childless before his paternal brother Levi is born. Shimon performs yibbum with Reuven’s widow Rachel and also has Miriam as his wife. When Shimon dies childless, Rachel remains forbidden to Levi and Miriam is exempt as her co-wife.
may be born before or after ’s . What matters is that he was born after died.
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הלכה יח

Maamar Prevents but Does Not Fully Exempt the Co-Wife

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If performed maamar with his , ’s wife, and died before completing with her—

The family circumstances remain those of the preceding : was born after died. Here, however, performed maamar but died before having the relations that establish the full marriage.

Maamar is a Rabbinic act of with a . It creates a legal connection, but does not accomplish the full acquisition established through .

performs with her co-wife, but not ,

“Her co-wife” here means ’s other wife. ’s widow herself remains forbidden to because died before was born.

’s maamar connects ’s widow to his household sufficiently for the Sages to prohibit from performing with ’s other wife. Nevertheless, maamar does not make that other wife fully exempt from the obligation. She therefore needs .

because maamar does not establish a complete acquisition of a , as we have explained.

This is the distinction from halachah 17. Full makes the other wife the co-wife of an and exempts her completely. Maamar creates only a partial Rabbinic connection: it prevents with the other wife but leaves the obligation requiring .

Synopsis

If performed only maamar with ’s widow, his other wife requires from . The partial connection prohibits but does not create the complete exemption produced by full .

הלכה יט

Proven Adultery and an Unresolved Case

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If a woman willingly committed adultery while married, with to the act, and her husband died before divorcing her, bringing her before a —

The ruling concerns established, willing adultery, rather than suspicion or an act committed under coercion. The husband was required to divorce her, but died without descendants before doing so. His obligation to divorce her is discussed in 24:18.

she is exempt from and , as is her co-wife, as though she were an to the ,

Her marriage did not disappear automatically when she committed adultery; a would have been needed to end it during her husband’s lifetime. Nevertheless, for the laws of , her established adultery gives her the exempting status described here. Both she and her co-wife are excluded from the obligation.

For the describes her with the language of impurity, as it does the , stating, “And she became impure” ( 5:13; 5:14).

The uses the language of impurity both for this woman and for forbidden relationships. This comparison is the basis for treating her like an regarding exemption from and , including the exemption of her co-wife. “Impurity” here concerns the forbidden relationship, rather than ordinary ritual impurity.

But if a ’s husband died before giving her the bitter waters to drink,

Here, refers to a woman whose fidelity remains unresolved after her husband formally warned her against secluding herself with a particular man, and she subsequently secluded herself with him under the conditions that establish a case. Unlike the first case, adultery has not been established by .

The bitter waters are part of the ’s procedure for resolving such a case. Once the husband dies, that procedure is no longer performed, as stated in 2:7.

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or she is ineligible to drink and must instead be divorced, she undergoes , but not .

Some unresolved cases cannot proceed to the drinking of the bitter waters, and the husband must divorce the woman instead. These categories are discussed in 2:2.

If the husband dies before the required divorce, the unresolved possibility of adultery prevents . But because adultery has not been established, she is not completely exempt like the woman in the first case. is therefore required.

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If she had a co-wife, her co-wife is permitted and undergoes either or .

The unresolved case restricts the woman herself but does not give her the status that exempts and prohibits her co-wife. The other widow therefore remains eligible for either procedure.

Synopsis

Established, willing adultery exempts both the woman and her co-wife from and . An unresolved requires rather than , while her co-wife remains eligible for either procedure.

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Proven Adultery and an Unresolved Case

The disagrees with the complete exemption in the case of established adultery. He reasons that the woman would still have needed a from her husband despite becoming forbidden to him. Similarly, after his death, should still be required to release her bond.

The records the ’s ruling that established adultery exempts the woman and her co-wife. The records the opposing opinion requiring for this household and directs that the stricter position be followed.

Sources: , 6:19, reporting the Ra’avad’s position; and Rema, 173:11.

הלכה כ

When a Prohibition Does—and Does Not—Extend to the Co-Wife

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Likewise, if two come from one household, and one is a to the , forbidden to him by a negative commandment or a positive commandment, or an —

“One household” means that both women were married to the same deceased brother. These categories differ from an : their restrictions or exemptions do not automatically extend to the other widow.

her co-wife is permitted and undergoes either or .

The otherwise eligible co-wife may perform even though the first widow cannot. An ’s personal exemption likewise does not exempt her co-wife.

But if a man performed with his , and his ’s sister, mother, or another such relative married his brother,

The man who performed is forbidden by Rabbinic law to marry these relatives of his . His brother may nevertheless be permitted to marry one of them.

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and that brother had another wife and died, bringing both women before him—

“That brother” is the husband of the ’s relative. He died without descendants, leaving both that relative and his other wife before the brother who had performed the earlier .

just as his ’s relative is forbidden to him, so too her co-wife is forbidden,

both have the status of to him and undergo , but not .

This is a specific Rabbinic restriction extending to the relative’s co-wife. Unlike the ordinary in the opening ruling, the ’s relative also prevents with her co-wife. Nevertheless, neither woman has the complete -level exemption of an .

Because both women are prohibited to this , neither woman’s releases the other. Each requires from him.

Why did they prohibit the co-wife of his ’s relative?

Because she may be confused with the co-wife of his .

These are two different women: the co-wife of a ’s relative belongs to the later deceased brother’s household; the co-wife of the herself belonged to the original deceased brother’s household.

The latter woman remains forbidden to the man after he performs with another widow from that original household. To prevent confusion between these similar relationships, the Sages also prohibited with the co-wife of the ’s relative.

Synopsis

An ordinary , a woman subject to the specified marriage restrictions, or an does not prohibit her otherwise eligible co-wife. A specific Rabbinic decree prohibits both a ’s forbidden relative and that relative’s co-wife; each requires from this .

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Her Sister’s Affects Both Widows

dies without descendants, and his brother performs with ’s widow, .

Their brother is married to ’s sister, , and also to . later dies without descendants.

cannot perform with because she is his ’s sister. He cannot perform with either, because the Rabbinic restriction extends to ’s co-wife.

As the sole surviving brother, must perform with each woman.

The distinction

In this specified case, the Rabbinic restriction extends to the forbidden relative’s co-wife. Each widow needs from .

הלכה כא

When an Does Not Exempt Her Co-Wife

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If two come from one household, one is an to the , and that is an , her co-wife is permitted and undergoes either or ,

Both women were married to the same deceased brother. Ordinarily, a widow who is an to the surviving brother also exempts her co-wife. Here, however, that widow is an , a woman in the defined category of congenital reproductive incapacity.

Since an is not subject to , she is treated as though absent, and his arises only with her co-wife.

“As though absent” concerns her place in the obligation; it does not mean that her marriage necessarily lacked validity. This ruling applies even when the deceased knew she was an and married her knowingly. Her exclusion from —not an invalid marriage—is what prevents her from exempting her co-wife. The other widow therefore remains eligible for or .

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Likewise, if his brother divorced the , or she performed against him before he died, or she died during her husband’s lifetime and his brother subsequently died—

is a minor girl’s refusal that annuls an eligible Rabbinically established marriage. It is available only in the marriages to which that procedure applies.

In each case here, the woman who was an to the surviving brother was no longer married to the deceased when he died: the marriage had ended through divorce or , or she had already died.

her co-wife is permitted and undergoes either or .

We do not say, “Since she was once the co-wife of an , she must remain forbidden forever,”

because the co-wife does not become forbidden unless she is the co-wife of an when the obligation arises.

The decisive time is the husband’s death. Having shared a husband with an earlier does not itself create a permanent prohibition. This differs from halachah 15, where the exemption had already taken effect at the deceased’s death and therefore continued through later marriages.

Synopsis

An who is also an does not exempt her co-wife. Likewise, if the ’s marriage ended or she died before the husband’s death, the remaining widow may undergo either or .

הלכה כב

Doubtful Marriage and After the Husband’s Death

If the woman who is an to the was doubtfully to his deceased brother, or doubtfully divorced from him,

The uncertainty concerns whether the was legally married to the deceased at his death. If her never took effect, or her divorce did take effect, the other widow was not the co-wife of an at the decisive time. If the marriage did take effect and had not ended, the other widow was exempt as the co-wife of an .

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or she was a minor eligible for who did not perform against his brother during his lifetime, even though she performed against the —

Here, the minor did not annul the marriage before her husband died. Only afterward did she perform in relation to the surviving brother.

Although retroactively annuls the original marriage, the Sages did not permit the co-wife to undergo in this situation. An observer might not understand the retroactive annulment and could mistakenly conclude that the co-wife of an is permitted.

her co-wife undergoes , but not .

In the doubtful-marriage cases, addresses the possibility that the co-wife has a genuine obligation. is prohibited because she may instead be the exempt—and forbidden—co-wife of an .

In the posthumous case, the marriage is retroactively annulled, leaving an obligation requiring , but a specific Rabbinic decree prevents . Thus, the first cases turn on uncertain marital status; the case turns on a Rabbinic restriction despite the annulment.

Synopsis

Uncertainty about whether an was married to the deceased requires her co-wife to undergo rather than . performed only after the husband’s death likewise leaves the co-wife requiring , with prohibited by Rabbinic decree.

הלכה כג

A Mistaken Exemption Followed by Marriage to Another Man

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If the co-wife of an married another man, and afterward the was discovered to be an —

The widow married someone outside the family because she believed that being the co-wife of an exempted her from and .

The later discovery changes that conclusion. As explained in halachah 21, an who is an does not exempt her co-wife. The widow therefore had an unresolved obligation when she married the other man.

the co-wife must leave both her husband and her ,

She may not remain with the man she married, and she may not resolve the situation by marrying the through . This follows the rule in Chapter 2, halachah 18 concerning a widow who enters marriage with another man before her bond is released: she becomes forbidden both to that man and to her .

The case here concerns marriage, not merely . The earlier chapter distinguishes a woman who only received from another man.

She requires a from her husband and from her to permit her to marry another man.

The releases her from the union she entered with the other man. releases the original bond, which that union did not remove. Neither procedure replaces the other.

A child fathered by the man she married is not a on account of this violation: marrying while bound to a violates a negative commandment that does not carry . This differs from the forbidden relationship in the next .

Synopsis

If a widow married another man under a mistaken belief that she was exempt, and her co-wife was later discovered to be an , she must receive a from that husband and from her .

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An Exemption That Was Only Assumed

is married to and . is an to his brother .

When dies without descendants, believes that being ’s co-wife exempts her from and , so she marries another man.

is later discovered to be an .

was therefore never exempt: she must receive a from the man she married and from , and may remain with neither man.

The distinction

’s status as an means she did not exempt . ’s original obligation therefore still needs , despite her mistaken later marriage.

הלכה כד

Performed Under a Mistaken Assumption

If the performed with the co-wife because they thought that the was an ,

He relied on the rule in halachah 21: if the is an , her co-wife is eligible for .

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and the was discovered not to be an —

The discovery establishes that the woman with whom he performed was actually the co-wife of an . She was therefore exempt from and remained forbidden to him as his brother’s wife. The mistaken assumption did not create permission for the relationship.

she must leave her with a ,

The text reproduced here requires a despite the underlying prohibition. This is an unusual requirement; the ’s explanation and the differing textual reading are discussed below.

and the child is a .

is a defined status arising from specified forbidden relationships; it does not mean simply a child born outside marriage. Here, the co-wife remained forbidden as a brother’s wife in a relationship carrying . A child conceived from that relationship has this status even if the parents had not yet discovered their mistake.

Synopsis

If was performed because the was mistakenly thought to be an , the co-wife must leave the . The reproduced text requires a , and a child from the forbidden relationship is a .

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Based on a Mistaken Assumption

In the opposite situation, leaves the same two widows, and . People mistakenly believe that , who is an to , is an , so performs with .

is later found not to be an .

was therefore exempt as the co-wife of an and remained forbidden to as his brother’s wife.

They must separate; the Hebrew text here requires a , as explained below.

A child conceived from their forbidden relationship is a .

The distinction

The mistaken belief that was an did not permit to . ’s actual status at ’s death governs the prohibition.

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Performed Under a Mistaken Assumption

The addresses the unusual requirement of a . Ordinarily, cannot take effect with an , so no is necessary. Why require one here?

He explains that observers might think the deceased divorced the shortly before his death. Under that assumption, the co-wife’s would have been valid. Allowing her to leave without a could therefore give the appearance that a married woman was being released without divorce.

The records the ruling as requiring separation without a and attributes that wording to the . The likewise requires no . The Or Sameach defends the reading requiring a by explaining the concern that observers might mistake the relationship for a valid marriage.

Sources: Or Sameach, 6:24; Tur, 173; , 173:9.

Live ItBe Willing to Recheck an Assumption

Be Willing to Recheck an Assumption

In 23–24, people act on an understanding of the facts that later proves mistaken. The consequences differ, but both cases show how much can depend on establishing the facts correctly.

We also make everyday decisions based on assumptions: “He ignored me,” “She does not want help,” or “Someone else is taking care of it.” Sometimes we have understood correctly. Sometimes one missing detail changes the picture. A practical expression of is being willing to say, “I may have misunderstood.” That willingness can protect another person from an unfair judgment and help us correct our own conduct. calls us to look beyond the first impression and remember the person before us. , chapter 32, places the soul at the center of that relationship.

Try today

Before acting on a negative assumption about someone, identify what you actually know. If clarification is appropriate, ask calmly and give them room to explain.

Practical reflection inspired by 6:24. Supporting sources: , chapter 32.

הלכה כה

A Co-Wife Relationship Created Through

There are three brothers: two are married to two sisters, and one is married to an unrelated woman,

“Unrelated woman” translates nachris here. It means a Jewish woman who does not have the family relationship relevant to this case; it does not mean a non-Jewish woman.

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the brother married to the unrelated woman died, and afterward one of the brothers married to the sisters died—

Both deaths occurred without descendants. When the first brother died, his widow became bound by to both surviving brothers. One of those brothers subsequently died before performing with her.

the unrelated woman undergoes , but not ,

because, through her to the brother who died last, she is the co-wife of his wife’s sister.

The brother who died second had been married to the surviving brother’s wife’s sister. The unrelated widow’s to that second brother creates a connection resembling that of a co-wife to his wife.

After the second brother’s death, this connection prohibits with the unrelated widow. It is not an actual marriage that fully exempts her from , so remains required. The sister herself is an to the surviving brother and needs neither procedure from him.

This ruling concerns the situation after the second brother dies. It does not mean that the unrelated widow was already forbidden to undergo with either surviving brother while both were alive.

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Furthermore, even if one of the brothers married to the sisters divorced his wife after the brother married to the unrelated woman died, and the divorcing brother then died—

The order matters: the unrelated woman first became bound to this brother while he was still married to the sister. He divorced his wife only afterward.

the unrelated woman undergoes , but not , since she was, for a time, the co-wife of his wife’s sister through ,

Although the divorce removed the second brother’s marriage to the sister before his death, the earlier connection through still prevents under this ruling.

For if she were permitted to undergo , people might come to perform with her even when the brother who died last had not divorced his wife.

The restriction prevents confusion between the case involving divorce and the case in which the sister remained married to the second brother until his death. In that latter case, the prohibition arising through still applies. releases the unrelated widow without allowing .

Synopsis

After the second brother’s death, to him can prohibit with an otherwise unrelated widow because he was married to the surviving brother’s wife’s sister. remains required, and under the ’s ruling, an intervening divorce does not remove the restriction.

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Connected as Co-Wives Without a Marriage

is married to , to , and to . and are sisters; is unrelated to them.

dies without descendants, so becomes bound to and .

then dies without descendants before performing with .

cannot perform with because she is his wife’s sister.

also requires rather than , because her earlier to connected her to as a co-wife through .

The distinction

’s to creates the relevant co-wife connection to . It prevents with , but does not exempt from .

Reuven is married to Asnat, Shimon to her sister Leah, and Levi to unrelated Rachel. Levi dies childless. Rachel has zikah to Reuven and Shimon. Shimon dies childless before yibbum. Leah is forbidden to Reuven as his wife’s sister; Rachel requires chalitzah because of her co-wife connection to Leah through zikah.
This shows the first case of halachah 25. Its later divorce variation has the same outcome for under the ’s ruling.
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A Co-Wife Relationship Created Through

The disagrees with extending the prohibition to the case in which the second brother divorced his wife before dying. On his view, that divorce removes the obstacle, so the unrelated widow is not prohibited from merely because she previously had to him while he was married to the sister.

The disagreement concerns the effect of the intervening divorce. It does not remove the prohibition in the first case, where the second brother died while still married to the sister.

Sources: Ra’avad, 6:25; and on that .

הלכה כו

Why Marriage and Are Treated Differently

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Why did the Sages not enact this same restriction in a case of marriage? For when an has a co-wife through marriage, if the husband divorces the and then dies, her former co-wife is permitted to the , as we explained.

An is a woman forbidden to the surviving brother because of a prohibited family relationship. If she remains married to the deceased brother when he dies, both she and her co-wife are exempt from and . If he divorces her before his death, the other woman is no longer her co-wife at the decisive moment and may perform .

In halachah 25, the first brother’s widow became connected through —the bond created by an unresolved obligation of —to a second brother who was married to the surviving brother’s wife’s sister. Even if that second brother divorced his wife before dying, the widow remained forbidden to perform with the surviving brother. Why did the Sages not impose the same restriction when the women had actually been married to one husband?

Because the prohibition against the co-wife of an through marriage is known to everyone, people will not permit the co-wife unless the husband divorced the .

People recognize the distinction between an who remained married to the deceased at his death and one who had already been divorced. Permitting the former co-wife after the divorce will therefore not lead them to permit her when the remained married.

But the prohibition against the co-wife of an through is not known to everyone. People might therefore permit the co-wife even when the was not divorced.

The connection through is less apparent than an ordinary marriage. In the circumstances of halachah 25, the Sages therefore maintained the restriction even after the divorce, lest people also permit when no divorce occurred.

Synopsis

An ’s former co-wife may perform if the was divorced before her husband’s death. The additional restriction involving co-wives through does not extend to this case of actual marriage.

הלכה כז

Maamar Leaves a Connection to Two Deceased Brothers

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Three brothers were married to three women who were unrelated to one another. One brother died, and the second performed maamar with his . He then died before completing , leaving both women before the surviving . Both must undergo and may not perform .

“Unrelated” means that the women are not relatives of one another; it does not mean that they are non-Jewish.

Maamar is a rabbinically instituted act of consecration between a and his deceased brother’s widow. It creates a partial marital connection but does not complete . The two women now before the surviving brother are the first brother’s widow, who received maamar, and the second brother’s own wife. Each requires .

For the woman who received maamar bears the of two and is regarded as though she were the wife of two deceased men.

Her original , arising from her first husband’s death, was never resolved through completed . Maamar added a partial connection to the second brother. When he also died, she retained connections arising through both deceased brothers.

This differs from an ordinary widow awaiting from two living brothers. Here, the unresolved obligation arising from the first death overlaps with the additional connection created by maamar with a brother who subsequently died.

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The Sages expounded: “The wife of the deceased” ( 25:5)—not the wife of two deceased men.

The wording of the verse provides an , a Scriptural support for the rabbinic restriction. It does not make this prohibition a prohibition.

Therefore, any woman who bears the of two must undergo and may not perform . The same applies to her co-wife. Their prohibition is rabbinic.

Here, the co-wife is the second brother’s own wife, who became connected to the first widow through his maamar. The following explains why she too may not perform .

Had the second brother completed before dying, the original obligation would have been resolved. The woman would then fall before the surviving brother as the second brother’s widow, without this overlapping connection.

Synopsis

If a brother performs maamar with his deceased brother’s widow and dies before completing , both she and his own wife require . Neither may perform .

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The First Bond Was Never Completed

, , and are married to , , and respectively.

dies childless, and performs maamar with but does not complete .

then dies childless.

retains the unresolved connection arising from ’s death together with the partial connection created by ’s maamar.

must perform with both and .

The distinction

Maamar adds a partial connection without completing . When dies, still has the unresolved first obligation alongside that additional connection; both widows need from .

Reuven dies childless leaving Leah. Shimon performs maamar with Leah while already married to Rachel, but dies childless before completing yibbum. Leah retains the first unresolved bond plus maamar’s partial connection through Shimon. Levi must perform chalitzah with both Leah and Rachel.
Maamar is a partial Rabbinic connection. This is different from ordinary to two living brothers.
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הלכה כח

Why the Co-Wife Also May Not Perform

Why may he not perform with the woman who received maamar and bears the of two , and perform with her co-wife?

The second brother’s own wife does not personally have the overlapping connections described in the preceding . Why, then, may the surviving brother not release the first widow through and perform with the second?

It is a decree to prevent people from saying that, when two come from one household, one may undergo and the other may perform . Therefore, the Sages prohibited her co-wife as well.

In an ordinary case, complete with one of a deceased brother’s wives releases all his wives from . Neither the woman who underwent nor her co-wives may then perform with any of the surviving brothers. releases the woman who undergoes it but does not automatically release her co-wives; its additional requirements are discussed in Chapter 5.

Here, maamar makes the two women appear to belong to one household. Allowing with one and with the other could lead observers to permit that same combination for ordinary co-wives. The Sages therefore prohibited with the second brother’s own wife as well.

Synopsis

The co-wife also requires , lest people conclude that ordinary co-wives from one household may divide their release between and .

הלכה כט

Cancelling the Maamar Restores Eligibility

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If a brother performed maamar with his , gave her a cancelling his maamar, and then died, she returns to her permitted status.

The here is directed specifically at the maamar alone, rather than at the underlying . A directed at the would disqualify her from .

The permission concerns with another surviving brother. rules in Chapter 5:4 that the brother who gave the remains forbidden to perform with her.

For he cancelled the maamar that had prohibited her. The surviving brother may therefore choose either to perform with her or to perform .

The restriction in halachah 27 arose because maamar remained in force when the second brother died. Here, he cancelled that additional connection before his death. The widow is therefore left with the original obligation arising from her first husband’s death, which the surviving brother may resolve through either or .

The does not itself permit her to marry outside the family. Her original remains until or takes place.

If the second brother also left his own wife, her obligation must be resolved separately through or . Cancelling the maamar removes the connection that would have joined the two women for the restriction discussed above.

Synopsis

If a brother cancels only his maamar with a and then dies, the widow may perform either or with another surviving brother. The itself does not release her original .

הלכה ל

A Minor’s Relations Have the Effect of Maamar

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If a boy aged nine years and one day had relations with his , died while still a minor, and she fell a second time before his adult brother, she must undergo and may not perform .

Nine years and one day is the minimum age for this rule. It also applies to an older boy who is still a minor.

His relations have legal significance, but they do not complete in the manner of an adult’s relations. Because he died while still a minor, the original obligation remained unresolved when the widow fell before the surviving adult brother.

For the relations of a nine-year-old have the status of maamar performed by an adult, as we explained. She therefore bears the of two .

For these laws, the minor’s relations create a partial connection comparable to an adult’s maamar. They add a connection to the minor brother without fully resolving the arising from the first husband’s death.

When the minor also dies, the widow retains connections arising through both deceased brothers. She therefore comes under the rabbinic restriction explained in halachah 27 and requires from the surviving adult brother.

Synopsis

If a boy aged at least nine years and one day has relations with his and dies while still a minor, she requires from the surviving adult brother. His relations have the effect of maamar, leaving her connected through two deceased brothers.

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Maamar has real legal significance, but it does not complete . These carefully distinguish a beginning from the act that completes the process.

That distinction can prompt us to examine our own good intentions. We resolve to learn regularly, give , or help someone. The intention matters, but there is still an action waiting to be done. , chapter 4, describes thought, speech, and action in and as the soul’s garments. A good resolution should find expression in the relevant deed: opening the , making the donation, or providing the promised help. We need not become discouraged because a larger goal remains unfinished. 2:16 teaches that we are not responsible for completing all the work, but we must continue doing our part.

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Choose one good resolution you have already made. Take one concrete step toward carrying it out.

Practical reflection inspired by 6:30. Supporting sources: , chapter 4; 2:16.

הלכה לא

Uncertainty Between Two Marriages Does Not Create a Double

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A woman who was half a maidservant and half free was to . She was then fully freed and subsequently to . If both died, she may perform with and is not considered the wife of two deceased men.

The woman had the status of a Canaanite maidservant but had been freed from only half of her servitude. her while she had that mixed status. After she became fully free, his brother her. Both brothers subsequently died childless, leaving their brother .

As explained in 4:16, her first were incomplete while she was half a maidservant. The uncertainty relevant here concerns their status after she became fully free: do they bind her to , preventing ’s from taking effect, or can ’s take effect instead?

The case assumes that had not had marital relations with her after her emancipation and before ’s . Whichever possibility is correct, only one brother’s bind her; the uncertainty does not establish simultaneous marital connections to both.

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If ’s are effective, ’s have no effect. If ’s are effective, ’s have no effect.

The two possibilities exclude one another. If ’s original bind her after emancipation, she is already to him, and ’s cannot take effect. If ’s take effect, ’s original do not bind her.

This differs from maamar, which adds a partial connection to a second brother while the original remains unresolved. Here, whichever possibility is correct, she falls before as the widow of only one brother. Although the identity of that brother is uncertain, may perform with her.

Synopsis

If only one of two brothers’ can be effective, uncertainty about which one is effective does not make the woman the wife of two deceased men. After both die childless, she may perform with their surviving brother.

Sources & editorial method

Hebrew text: Mishneh Torah, Hilchos Yibbum VaChalitzah, Chapter 6. The Hebrew is preserved as the primary text and divided into short learning units.

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Chapter 6 at a glance

Eligibility, Forbidden Relationships, and Overlapping Bonds

This chapter distinguishes between people who are eligible for or , those who require only one of these procedures, and those who have no obligation. It also examines how forbidden relationships and overlapping marital bonds affect a widow and her deceased husband’s other wife.

  • Surviving brothers fall into four categories: eligible for both procedures, exempt from both, eligible for alone, or capable of alone.
  • A and an have no bond, because they were never reproductively fit.
  • can have legal effect even where cannot. A cannot end a -level marriage; a minor’s partial bond cannot be ended by his until adulthood.
  • Doubtful eligibility, specified reproductive injuries, and inability to have marital relations can require rather than . Where prohibited nevertheless establishes marriage, a is required to end it.
  • Widows, like surviving brothers, may be eligible for both procedures, exempt from both, eligible for alone, or eligible for alone.
  • A , a , and a minor can undergo but cannot perform valid in their present status. A legally competent may subsequently divorce a with a .
  • The specified marriage restrictions, Rabbinic kinship restrictions, and doubtful divorce require rather than . Doubtful without a possible forbidden relationship do not prevent . A ’s widow and women who previously had reproductive fitness remain eligible for either procedure.
  • The specified congenital reproductive categories, the absence of a qualifying marriage, and an prohibition to the surviving brother exclude the widow from both and .
  • A widow who is a definite to the surviving brother has no with him and requires neither nor from him.
  • These prohibitions do not prevent from arising, so is required. If prohibited nevertheless takes place, it establishes a full marriage and releases the co-wives; the woman herself must receive a to end that marriage.
  • Relations between a and a widow from do not create the complete -level acquisition needed to release her co-wife. The co-wife still requires .
  • An to the deceased never became his legal wife and has no obligation. His validly married widow remains obligated. If the first woman is permitted to the surviving brother, he may marry her ordinarily while performing with the other widow.
  • A prohibition that applied only to the deceased generally does not prevent with an otherwise permitted brother. The remarried-divorcee case is an exception. A possible relationship to the requires , and doubtful involving two sisters can leave both women forbidden to him.
  • When one validly married widow is an to a surviving brother at the deceased’s death, her co-wife is also exempt from and with him. Without , the co-wife remains forbidden to him as his brother’s wife.
  • A woman exempted from a brother as the co-wife of an remains forbidden to him after a later marriage. If her new husband dies, she also exempts her new co-wife from that brother, and the same rule continues through further such marriages.
  • A widow has no bond with a brother born after her husband’s death. She remains permanently forbidden to him as his brother’s wife and also exempts her co-wife.
  • The wife of a brother who died before the younger brother was born remains forbidden to that younger brother even after another brother performs with her. If that second brother dies, she also exempts her co-wife.
  • If performed only maamar with ’s widow, his other wife requires from . The partial connection prohibits but does not create the complete exemption produced by full .
  • Established, willing adultery exempts both the woman and her co-wife from and . An unresolved requires rather than , while her co-wife remains eligible for either procedure.
  • An ordinary , a woman subject to the specified marriage restrictions, or an does not prohibit her otherwise eligible co-wife. A specific Rabbinic decree prohibits both a ’s forbidden relative and that relative’s co-wife; each requires from this .
  • An who is also an does not exempt her co-wife. Likewise, if the ’s marriage ended or she died before the husband’s death, the remaining widow may undergo either or .
  • Uncertainty about whether an was married to the deceased requires her co-wife to undergo rather than . performed only after the husband’s death likewise leaves the co-wife requiring , with prohibited by Rabbinic decree.
  • If a widow married another man under a mistaken belief that she was exempt, and her co-wife was later discovered to be an , she must receive a from that husband and from her .
  • If was performed because the was mistakenly thought to be an , the co-wife must leave the . The reproduced text requires a , and a child from the forbidden relationship is a .
  • After the second brother’s death, to him can prohibit with an otherwise unrelated widow because he was married to the surviving brother’s wife’s sister. remains required, and under the ’s ruling, an intervening divorce does not remove the restriction.
  • An ’s former co-wife may perform if the was divorced before her husband’s death. The additional restriction involving co-wives through does not extend to this case of actual marriage.
  • If a brother performs maamar with his deceased brother’s widow and dies before completing , both she and his own wife require . Neither may perform .
  • The co-wife also requires , lest people conclude that ordinary co-wives from one household may divide their release between and .
  • If a brother cancels only his maamar with a and then dies, the widow may perform either or with another surviving brother. The itself does not release her original .
  • If a boy aged at least nine years and one day has relations with his and dies while still a minor, she requires from the surviving adult brother. His relations have the effect of maamar, leaving her connected through two deceased brothers.
  • If only one of two brothers’ can be effective, uncertainty about which one is effective does not make the woman the wife of two deceased men. After both die childless, she may perform with their surviving brother.
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